My wife is a gambling addict. She applies emotional blackmail on me when she doesn’t get her way much like a little kid. She threatens divorce knowing I don’t want that.
She will do things like say she is going to see so and so who she owes money. Then later ask me for 500 to pay off her friend. Well as it turns out my wife is at the casino and withdrew 500 from her account. Naturally I say no and she gets mad. Then she borrows money from others and loses it all and now she is worse off than before. She messages me that now she doesn’t have money for gas to even come home . Says now she doesn’t have money for a divorce lol. And says things like now she’ll have to sell her body.
She would say you think I like gambling? I don’t but I have no choice. Man this is mixed up . She has no job anymore and owes friends money and is embarrassed that she lied to them that she needed money because of emergency and now can’t pay them back. I want her to hit rock bottom.
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sometimes I want to bail her out just to alleviate the pain I feel with how she treats me  by giving me silent treatment. But I’ve done that in the past only for the same thing to happen over and over again .
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