Hi iv been with my parter 2 years and i really do love him and want to stay with him but am i being stupid he is awful when it.comes to gambelling he cant stop homself he gets nasty he would rather gamble than go do somthing together on many occasions he has picked.me up to go out for the night then ended up spending all his money at bookies he can get nasty and has pushed and shoved.me but when things are good there amazing i really am ready to settle down but do i have a future together please help me ????
Hello Sacharose,
Welcome to the forum.
You mentioned that your partner ‘Gets nasty’ and that he has ‘Pushed and shoved’ you. If you feel that your partner is using physical aggression to intimidate or control you, you could discuss this with the 24 hour National Domestic Violence Freephone Helpline on 0808 2000 247
http://www.nationaldomesticviolencehelpline.org.uk/
It sounds like you’re wondering what the future might hold for your relationship. Perhaps you might feel hurt, frustrated or disappointed that he sometimes chooses to gamble rather than spend time with you? If you’d like to talk with a GamCare adviser about how you have been affected by your partner’s gambling, please feel welcome to call our Freephone on 0808 8020 133.
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