Went a good few years without gambling. My girlfriend stuck by me through my last relapse and I couldnt have done it without her. We got accepted for a mortgage and everything was going so well untill...
Ive started gambling again and took a small loan out which I can afford but with buying the house that hasnt went through yet im really worried we wont get accepted at the final stage.
I dont know whether the bank checks again but if they do i am screwed. We wont get the house and she will leave me and if it gets to that point then ill go into a really dark place.
I hope im given a second chance and the house goes through. Lesson learned. I hope and pray it happens. My anxiety is at an all time high waiting.
Firstly, stop gambling! Put blocks in place and start the road ro recovery again.
You are about to make a huge commitment with your girlfriend. Regardless of whether the bank check again, she deserves to know the truth before making that commitment. Don't wait for her to find out. Tell her. She will be upset and angry, but hopefully you can work through it and move forward. Good luck.
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