Replacing the buzz and excitement

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(@sinceninetyeight)
Posts: 65
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I read a lot of success on here, I am just struggling to replace the excitement - I’ve no real “urge” to place a bet but I’m missing something…almost like gambling was my routine and fun? 

Might sound a weird thing to write but just wondered if anyone else felt similar? 

 
Posted : 31st August 2022 7:25 pm
(@sam23)
Posts: 14
 

Hi.

I feel the exact same.

I'm just  over 2 weeks without a bet,  which so far has been fairly easy now I have the right support.

But yes I feel like that bit of excitement has now gone. I've tried various different ideas and taken up some new hobbies.  But all in general feel alot better in myself 

 
Posted : 1st September 2022 5:49 am
(@pbuxton1982)
Posts: 63
 

Hi

I got a little this way as so much spare time , i idid find that i could watch sport and enjoy , well football i used to watch all sorts of sports just because of betting but i guess i didn't like. I play more on my xbox and binge on more netflix. I find my life more healthy as not staring at the phone and have more time for us. I guess if you need to fill the time, gym could be good as would give you a feel good factor.

 
Posted : 1st September 2022 11:23 am
(@q86r2ugj5p)
Posts: 1982
 

Hi

The buzz and adrenaline rush was very much fear based issues.

The bigger the risk the bigger the buzz.

Once  was abale to abstain from gambling I would recognize my fears very slowly.

I would also say that boredom was one of my emotional tyriggers.

I would understand that even though I was not in action I often felt life did not stimulate me.

I would understand that I needed to reduce my fears and also become more productive with my  time.

I would write down my needs my wants and my goals and once I completed each one cross them off.

By being more focused and in time more self sufficient I would improve the feeling of pride in my self.

I would also do thing less reluctantly.

Procrastinating was a very unhealthy habit and when I was procrastinating I was cheating my self.

I also reduced my speed when driving being more respectful of the road caodes.

I use to stress my self out far to much.

I use to go in to panic mode far to often because of the levels of fearas I was living in so many fear.

My fears froze me from living a full healthy life.

Love healing and peace to every one.

Dave L

AKA Dave Of Beckenham UK

 

 
Posted : 2nd September 2022 9:17 am

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