Needing the help after 2 years gamble free I’m relying on my partner to gamble for me
I have been back and forward with gam care about this situation of me asking my partner to gamble. I am currently banned from the betting shops and couple of arcade adult gaming shops. So good couple months back last year I started asking my partner to gamble for me. Now I am being truthful I am horrible when I gambled and since I have been asking her to gamble I am being horrible with her if she says no. So saves the arguing she’s been gambling for me if I ask her to go in a betting shop or arcade. I haven’t gambled myself but telling her to gamble I feel basically I have tonight hit rock bottom the relationship is hitting rock bottom also I need to stop myself from asking her I need to get these thoughts out my head the whole 2 year when I was gamble free and didn’t ask my partner to gamble was a great time. Then I don’t know what happened what made me think I could ask her to. But I do realise now I need help again!
thank you for reading
Good evening @Jade,
Thank you for sharing your story with us on the forum.
I appreciate this is a difficult situation for you and acknowledge your feelings around asking your partner to gamble for you. It is positive you are trying to stop asking your partner to gamble for you now and also that you would like support for this.
I would encourage you to reach out to us for support if you haven't already, either through our helpline 0808 8020 133 or on live chat, WhatsApp or Facebook. We would be more than happy to speak with you and look at support options to help you in your recovery.
Please do continue sharing your story with us on the forum.
Kind Regards,
Forum Admin
George
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