Hi all,
As many of you knows we have a 2016 challenge running on Overcoming gambling section run by Garyl1976 and another challenge run by Change, but i was thinking to open new 90 day thread for ones who wants to join. Some might be a little uncomfortable with crowds, some just maybe wants to give a go to 90 days first so don't feel as pressured to committing checking in for the whole year. Challenge is great focus and I know for myself how much it has helped me before and if even one more soul can be encouraged to put stop to self destruction, please be my guest.
So i have decided to start a thread/challenge that will last for 90 days starting Friday 1st july and ending on Saturday 1st October. It is 13 weeks challenge which takes us to 91 days so make that extra day as a solid platform to keep on the straight and narrow - one day at a time!
The thread is open to all wether its your day 1 or day 1000. New users can get off to that perfect start, people who have been here a little while can help consolidate what they have already achieved and the long time legends of the forum can use this as a way of keeping their focus.
Im not gonna be to strict with anyone, i will keep the registration open for the entire thread as even if you start a month in, completing 60 days is still a massive achievement. Also i wont remove any names unless asked to do so as i dont want to discourage anyone, if you do slip and wish to continue i can add your new start date in brackets (same as if you start the thread late)... I am not gonna count days...a name will have to do lol...as we know, we are all just one bet away from destruction...but knowing we can run 90 days might just open us the gate to new found determination and belief to keep moving on.
There will be a check in every friday where you can state your gamble free for another week, first check in being friday 1st july. Although if fridays doesnt suit just say and we can change the check in date or each have a different check in day, as long as your checking in each week then you'll be helping yourself and others move closer to that 90 day target.
As you can tell im keeping it quite relaxed as i feel as long as we're all moving towards the same goal its not neccessary to have too many "rules". Its all about helping yourself get free of this addiction and with that you'll be helping others which again helps yourselves.
Right enough of my ramblings, if you do wish to sign up just reply to this thread and i will add your name to the list below. If you have any questions or suggestions post away either here or i do have my own diary also.
Best wishes to everyone and i cant wait to start this journey!!!!
Sandra
Names of soldiers joining the challenge and blasting through 90 days are:
Sandra вњ…
Tri вњ…
Stephen2105 - missed check in
Garyl1976 вњ…
LifeBegins вњ…
Balvaird вњ…
YouCanCallMePaul - missed check in
Joan ☺ - missed check in
Gav123 - missed check in
Sam Crow вњ…
Uncertain outcomes вњ…
krlsthjkl - missed check in
8thOct вњ…
Kirstbob - missed check in
Hi Sandra
Given this a bit of thought as I should when committing to something new and you can add my name down. I keep a diary on here and commit to the 2016 challenge but it can be good to get a tune up and refresher on recovery from time time.
The other reason I am here is support for you and others who sign up. You've made some timely shares on my diary Sandra and I can't tell you how much they have meant to me. If one person picks up on supporting each other on this challenge, it'll be worth it 🙂
thanks for the invite and I hope I get accepted. Tri
Hey Tri ☺
Just a quick one since I need to dash out but wanted to thank you for joining the challenge and echo your thoughts re the support! Yes, we need to keep it up because that's what this site is here for. UNITY - shares, understanding, support, encouragement, compassion and acceptance of every single individual is the most powerful tool in this journey and life all together.
Thanks again and you're more than welcome to walk the walk in this tread. I'm sure we will be celebrating milestones and share every day struggles....it's life after all ☺
Your name is added on the list!
Have a great day and enjoy
S x
Hey hopeful ill like to join the challenge too if youll have me
I'll throw my hat in the ring too please.
Hi hopeful, I'm in, failing regularly but still trying.
Hey troops! ☺
Good to have you all on board and you're all more than welcome to walk with me on this little challenge. I guess i need motivation myself and now is the best time than ever!
Good stuff on not giving up Stephen and spud...we will get there...we are with an army on here ☺
Your names are on the list and will be looking forward for the first check ins on Friday 😉
Hey lovely, I'd like to join too....but only if we can celebrate with Galaxy's at the end 🙂
Looking forward to walking the 90 days with you all.
LifeBegins x
Hey LB,
Welcome on board ☺. You was on last challenge and good to have you here again!!!
Hmmm..Galaxy! Deal ☺...only if we can run a mile afterwards ;-)..balance is definitely good stuff lol
See you on Friday dear friend, keep up the good work
S x
Permission to step aboard Captain?
Sounds great add me in!
Hey Balvaird and YCCMP ☺
Great stuff and you both are added to the list!
First check in on Friday, will see you then safe & sound 🙂
S x
Hi Sis. I think I'm ready for this challenge.. Count me in??
Heeyyy Sister! I don't only think - i KNOW you're ready for it because you're one amazing lady with huge heart, honesty, determination, clarity, strength, compassion, understanding, fairness....shall i keep on going? 😉
Welcome aboard Sis!!!!
Yyyeeeehhhhaaaaaaahhhhhhhh
#lovingthis
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