Hi all,
Been on and off with gambling for about 6 years now.
I have tried so many times before to stop. I just havent been able to kick the habit completely. I cannot let go off football betting. This seems to lead me to other forms of gambling i.e. fobt which is my real downfall. I am therefore determined to not gamble at all from now on.
I have a three-pronged attack for doing this:
- self-exclude from all bettig shops in my local area and by my place of work. (Already done)
- destroy my bank card to ensure i do not have any access to funds (already done)
- attend counselling sessions for both my gambling and my anxiety issues that i have.
I believe my gambling is as a result of the anxiety. Gambling I feel is the sympton. As rather than telling loved ones when i am feeling down or anxious i prefer to gamble to escape from my feelings.
I feel i know what i need to do to kick this addiction. I just need the will power and strength of my mind to see it through.
Any suggestions as to any other methods to help me stop gambling is much apppreciated.
Kind regards
tb904eva
Another day gamble free. 3 days in now. Feeling focused and more relaxed.
I have exactly the same problem as u , football betting , the thing is if I stuck to football betting I would be fine probably 5/10 a week goes on that . But it's the fobts staring at me people playing the games I used to seeing where the ball was going to drop reeled me in , I've decided enough is enough and I've completely stopped all forms of betting to do with bookies or online , I'm now 3 days clean funny enough , keep going and be strong don't give in we work to hard to just give it to a machine or a bookie ! I try to think of the losses and how often I won which wasn't a lot that seems to keep me away and the thought of being a let down to my gf , try a new hobby to take your mind off it , good luck
Thanks for your response Dav_11.
Im pleased to say i have still not gambled. So it is now 15 days gamble free.
I have had the odd craving but fortunately i have battled successfully against these.
I think the biggest challenge will come at the end of the month when i get paid.
I do not have much disposable income at the moment due to christmas so i think that is helping me at this time.
Heres to another day gamble free.
I hope ur getting on ok Dav_11.
Thought i would make an update to my diary. I will be honest i have made several small football bets since my last post. I feel that the reason for this is still wanting to have some interest on weekend football matches.
I am struggling to give up gambling completely as i feel i have not come across anything that gives me the same feeling.
Does anyone have any ideas for beating the boredom of not gambling?
I am pleased to say i have been gamble free since 13th May. I have made steps to self exclude myself from all bookmakers in the vicinity of my work and home. I have also got rid of my debit card to ensure i do not have quick access to cash.
I will update this diary on a weekly basis. This will help to ensure that I continue to live a gamble-free life.
Just a quick update. I am feeling a bit down today. I have been on holiday for the last week so it has been difficult settling back into my job. A job which i am not enjoying at the moment.
I am proud, however, that I managed to get through the day without gambling as it is often on days like this that i would visit the betting shop and escape into my addicition.
I am taking one day at a time.
Thanks
Tom
Another week has gone by and i have not gambled. This week will be tough as it is payday so i will have some disposable cash. I have put blocks in place to ensure that if there is any temptation it will be extremely difficult for me to give into these temptations and gamble.
I will try to get through this week successfully and i know if i can manage that i believe it is a big step on my recovery journey.
Hi all, i am nearly 2 months gamble-free. It has been a difficult two months as during this period my anxiety over my relationship has continued to blight me. I am going to discuss our relationship with my girlfriend tommorow. I will ensure that the consequences of this meeting do not make me gamble again.
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