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Day 5 hope everyone had good weekend mine was gamble free which is main thing gotta keep negative thoughts away its bad for mental health I've realised that 🙁 x

The bear x

 
Posted : 20th January 2014 11:34 am
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Bear

Fella just worry about what's bad for your own health, you have dusted yourself down and have five days were you have gifted yourself somehting to behold.

To arrest the thing that will emotionally tear you apart, take all you have to give and more takes huge courage.

I hope you have accepted your losses, they are in the past, today look forward.

We both know you have something bigger than a punt to look forward to.

Be proud and enjoy the simple fact that you 'The Bear'

Made a choice.

To become a winner

Abstain and maintain

Duncs stepping forward never back.

 
Posted : 20th January 2014 3:07 pm
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Hello Mr Bear

So you are informing my cyber friends about my well being physically yeah ?

Really sorry that i worried so many people, not good !

Thanks for your continued support my friend & a massive well done for keeping away from those urges.

Dark Place /

 
Posted : 20th January 2014 6:19 pm
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Thanks dunc and dark place on to day 6 nearly a week 🙂 still small tiny steps but heading back in right direction have good day all 🙂

The bear x

 
Posted : 21st January 2014 7:41 am
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If anyone can answer this question would be much appreciated does gambling make you ill ?? As in mentally depression etc it seems to have that effect on me badly while I'm gambling I seem to be ok but as soon as evening comes I feel awful again I'm now 6 days free and things are feeling slightly better just interested what other people go through??

Any comments appreciated

The bear x

 
Posted : 22nd January 2014 12:19 am
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I think so I don't remember suffering depression and anxiety when I was younger. But I definitely do now. Not easy to accept for an ordinary easy going chap who wanted a simple life:)

 
Posted : 22nd January 2014 12:33 am
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Yep more so in later life michael gambling just makes it worse very similar to alcohol and drugs come to that just short term relief.

The bear

 
Posted : 22nd January 2014 12:43 am
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Day 7 one week 🙂 always the toughest few days for me but please be last time cannot go through the negative emotion anymore it's tiring really tiring slept a bit better last night have to train brain to stop looking at horses I've realised that going to have to construct new plan 🙂 no gambling today x

The bear x

 
Posted : 22nd January 2014 12:31 pm
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Day 8 feeling 100 percent better than last week need to stay on track this time although been here many times but as long as I'm fighting it I'm on track no gambling today x

The bear x

 
Posted : 23rd January 2014 8:17 am
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Bear

fella I can feel the energy in your posts, no self loathing, no trying to justify your gambling, just a good honest want to continue recovering.

my friend keep making the right choice.

As a dear friend of mine often says and don't reward yourself with a punt!!!

Duncs stepping forward never back.

 
Posted : 23rd January 2014 1:06 pm
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Hey bear,

YAY !!!! You are reaping the benefits of abstinence and it's great to see the determination and strength in your words.

Keep it up, you are worth so much more good things in your life. Take it all in and enjoy ur journey to the better future !!!

Day at a time

Sandra x

Be proud and very well done 🙂

 
Posted : 23rd January 2014 5:49 pm
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Day 9 nearly double figures 🙂 feeling lot better gambling is a real hit in the nuts stay away from it it's not nice just remember where it puts us in the rubbish bin :-/ no gambling today x

The bear x

 
Posted : 24th January 2014 11:44 am
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Hi Bear

It certainly is a kick in the knack**s to be honest i wish someone would do that to me every time i considered gambling ! would soon wake me up or make me impotent ! one or the other !

Well done for your nearly double figures & wishing you a great weekend.

Dark Place /

 
Posted : 24th January 2014 6:29 pm
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Day 10 the weekend is here never an easy time but no gambling today have a great day everyone x

The bear x

 
Posted : 25th January 2014 12:23 pm
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The bear

fella keep on adding those days.

your resolve will grow with them.

Enjoy the weekend for all the right reasons

Duncs stepping forward never back.

 
Posted : 25th January 2014 2:36 pm
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