The road to recovery

Day 3 of no gambling.

So far, so good.

I'm not going to lie, I've had no real urges or temptations to go and place a bet/gamble, but the thought is forever on my mind.

I've too much time on my hands at the moment and I need to fill ny days better.

However, I've made it to day 3 and that's all that counts right now.

Hi Moorey,

Day 3 under your belt; good man!

Now, whilst it's clear you are never gambling again, no one said it would be easy.

You will find ways to better manage your time.

Let's see what you're made of here. Let's see your true character , Moorey.

As they say in the army: "If we were out on the battlefield, would you have my back?".

Defining moments ahead, Moorey.

Up for the challenge Mixer!

Thankfully, I'm a pretty stubborn person when it comes to determination to succeeding.

It's time to kick this disgusting habit into touch for good!

Hey Moorey,

Good to see you here, it's the best place for people like us. The encouragement you get here from people who know exactly the anguish you're going through is invaluable. I was in your position 5 years ago and I've come through it mostly unscathed.

Like you, I had gambled for many years before it became a "problem" as such. Acknowledgment of that is a huge part of recovery, as is the determination you are already showing. It's going to be a long journey, but it's one worth making. Keep up with the updates on this diary, it will help you to focus on why you are doing this.

Good luck, my friend. One day at a time.

Cheers Scott!

Yes, this site is proving to be an invaluable tool to my very early success. It's great to hear from so many people like yourself, who've been through the mill and come out the other side. It shows that it can be done!

It helps to know that it's not just me that is facing these difficulties. That's how it felt before I came across this site. I felt trapped and alone. Now I have genuine hope and belief!

On to Day 4 gamble free.

Still no major urge to gamble which is positive. I'm really looking forward to next pay day so I can see the benefits that not gambling will have had. Unfortunately that''s another 4 and a half weeks away so I have to stay patient.

I've been so much happier within myself these last few days.

Long may it continue!

Nice one, Moorey. One day at a time is how it works for me. Temptation is never far away.

Just a note of caution, that feeling of not gambling can feel great. It's when that initial buzz of being GF goes that you need to be on guard for. You can do this mate, but it's a battle we fight every day. Keep up the diary, every GF update is a win. I actually got competitive about it, I just wanted to keep the streak going.

Thanks Scott, I'll take note of that and prepare myself for it.

I'm starting to feel like I want to gamble again - on sports rather than the roulette - but I know my stubborness won't let me.

I'm very competitive and this has become a battle between me and gambling. I refuse to lose!

It would hurt me so much to give in. So I won't/can't let that happen.

It's a matter of pride. I'm too proud and stubborn a person to give up.

Finally, my bad personality traits are coming in handy....haha!

Merry Christmas people!

What better way to spend it than it being a gamble free day!

Day 5 for me. Slow and steady progress...

Have a great day everyone!

Slow and steady is good. 5 days is excellent. Keep it going. Baby steps.

Day 6 - still gamble free and feeling amazing for it. I've not gone this long gf for about 10 years. It's a massive struggle at the moment, don't get me wrong.

Even more so today because of all the boxing day sport.

But I keep reminding myself of where I want to be in 6 months time and where I could be with my finances. That's what is driving me on.

Keep fighting boys and girls!

Stay strong and stay gamble free.

Hope you all had a lovely Christmas Day.

Good stuff Moorey, you are showing us what you are made of. Sensibly, intelligently and proactively you are choosing LIFE rather than abject misery. Keep going, one day at a time. I knew you'd be up for this. DO NOT let yourself down.

P.S. Happy Boxing Day 🙂

Happy Boxing Day Mix!

Cheers for your support. It means a lot.

6 full days complete, gamble free.

Today is the start of Day 7.

I'm beginning to miss the sports betting but I'm determined to build up my savings and not have to start again at Day 0.

Yesterday was very tough but came through it.

I'll be a lot better once I'm back at work in the New Year.

Here's to another gamble free day!

Hi Moorey,

Well done for showing strength of character to swerve sports betting yesterday. Believe me, one day you'll look back, and think - my god, I might have won a few but I lost far more. And whilst my non-gambling friends were streaking ahead in life, here I was getting nowhere fast!

Now you are with the pack, Moorey and have every chance. Never again with the sad, pitiful donkeys at the back of the field. And how easy is it, really. No more gambling today. And tomorrow; repeat. We are blessed with brains and nous. Let's not waste this gift.