Gambling addiction is a serious mental health problem, which has spiralled out of control and affects millions of men, women and children throughout the world.I am so fortunate to have finally realized my problem before I managed to self-destruct in one way or another. It can be a silent assassin because few people will ever know that a compulsive gambler is a compulsive gambler until the cracks or problems start to appear.Least of all themselves.
From the path I have now taken I am currently all too aware of many people who are struggling mentally and are giving in to addictions. Addiction is thought of as a crutch, something to do or lean onto in times of so-called stress. Stress is all relative and one person’s story is so different to another’s, but we never really know what a person is feeling.Especially if they hide it well.The reality is that It won’t take long before it’s the addiction that will add to the stress and increase the problem.Especially if the addiction is to gambling.
A compulsive gambler, like any addict, is never “cured”, continued recovery is the only option. It’s far too easy to fall back into old ways.My “recovery” doesn’t just include meetings.It’s a whole host of changes from work to my personal life.Too personal to mention here, but it’s working, and this article is clearly part of it.
No matter what anybody thinks, recovery is not easy.It takes considerable time and effort and can be a very selfish process.I had to eventually stop gambling for me, nobody else.The time and effort into others will follow once “recovery” is in place and the gambling has stopped.
Hi
Gambling addiction is one of the hardest addiction to find a healthy recovery from.
The gambling addiction was just the symptoms of my emotional vulnerability.
It is very painful to be self-destruct person.
The more time and effort we put in to our recovery the sooner we heal and find a much healthier life.
My fears came in many forms, stress anxiety and panic.
When I reached an all time high level of fears I would panic and not be able to think clearly in a healthy way.
Once we take recovery seriously our fears are faced and reduced and our inner child is healed from the pains of our past.
Recovery for me means healing the hurt inner child in me.
How much do we value our self today, how much time and effort are we willing to invest in to healing our hurt inner child.
How much do we value our self today, how much time and effort are we willing to invest in to reducing and facing our fears.
To become a healthy person we need to become very selfish.
No one else could stop me from gambling.
That was going to be my healthy choice.
Dave L
Hi
Being more and more honest indicates less fears and more healing.
As a child when ever I was asked to be honest I was punished for it.
Today I am honest all of the time and being honest my hurt inner child came out.
Me being honest indicates that I value my conscience and my spiritual values.
Me being honest also indicates that I am more honourable and trust worthy.
Only by abstaining from unhealthy habits can I take up healthy habits.
Dave L
AKA Dave of Beckenham
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