Oh Pangolin it is so like a toddler tantrum, i do also remind him he is 43 and not 3, don't care what he thinks deep down he knows i know just think he is actually embrassed. He's not used to being corrected so have to deal with that as well. He will learn in the end just like my children did.(and they have grown up to be very respectable adults..lol)
I do find it amazing that as i read other peoples posts i'm saying to myself "thats my hubby, yep does that too etc" they all follow the same pattern doing the samething. So glad i have this site.
Yes CW he is active, my way of dealing with it is i have more than enough money from him each week so although don't like wasting what he has left i'm not going to worry about it. It is him that then has to go without, i also find he actually doesn't do it if i turn off on the subject, like a child really. And whether it is right or wrong or me being childish he actually said he wasn't going to gamble any more as he had promised his mother, well even though she doesn't know (lives abroad) i feel he hasn't let me down but her and i can cope with that.
Thank you lovely people, you stop me from going mad !!! xx
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