Son broke down in tears today as he opened up to me about his bad gambling habit. I had no idea. He has managed to lose his whole child trust fund and what he had saved of a years wages. All.. gone..huge sums, although fortunately no debt.
He has with help of GamCare deleted all apps and blocked sites etc. He is on the list for speaking to one of the counsellors in their support teamÂ
I am glad he has opened up. And have told him I'm proud he has taken that step as well as the one to talk to GamCare by himself, as these first steps must be hard. He suggested to hand over control of his finances to me, but I worry that this would not really be helpful especially in the longer term.Â
Is there any advice you could give me how to deal with this, and support him as best as I can?
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My advice is that he has his whole life ahead. Im 37 and still to this day i regret i didnt sort it out 20 years ago. If he continues he will lose out of a lot of things. I couldnt do things with friends because i was skint due to gambling, i never brought a house because of gambling, basically i never achieved my goals, its time i will never ever get back and i live in constant regret.
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