Residential project

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You have done the right thing by posting on here and you will get support and advice from great people on here. Don't be afraid to write a longer post so people can understand more about the problem you are facing.

Hey there I'm aware of the residential centres but I don't recall reading anyone on here who has done it. I can imagine it can't be easy for you but it has to be a step in the right direction I would be interested in hearing more on what they do and any progress made.

KTF

Hey, thank you both 🙂 happy to keep you updated KTF.

My husband was doing well on recovery but sadly had a rather large slip last month. So we have taken the big step of residential rehab. It's four months which currently seems like a long time! They can't contact home for the first two weeks so I currently don't know a lot! Can't wait till Friday to hear from him and learn more about what he's going through .

So desperate for it to work. I want a family so much but am not bringing a child into this anytime soon. Tx

Hi Tinky

I hope I wasnt too intrusive in chat - I am sure you are going through a whole heap of emotions yourself at present. I just had a quick look at the retreat website (Definately no HMP!). Hope it goes well and that you both get the life you want.

Take care

Hi Tinky. My husband did a 3 month residential project 3 years ago. My biggest fear was that he would walk out but thankfully he seemed to really embrace it and in all honesty it was a huge relief for me to pass on the responsibility of his recovery to someone else. My big piece of advice is to take this time for you; focus on getting yourself strong because he will be getting plenty of help.
Sadly my husband relapsed 7 months after leaving and has continued to gamble since but that is down to him. These facilities offer excellent aftercare which if you embrace it can be a huge help for you both.
I wish you both the best in your recovery xx

Hi Tinky

Thanks for listening earlier. I know how your husband is feeling and if you ever want to have a chat to try and understand the issues a little more - I am happy to swap email addresses, or I can put you in touch with the guy that 'fixed me'

Enjoy the peace and quiet