Why do I lie to avoid conflict and responsibility. Why do I fear conflict

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 Neil
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Why do I lie . I have a massive fear of conflict and responsibility 

 
Posted : 15th December 2024 4:41 pm
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Hi

Our lies indicate that we are still hurting and living in our fears.

Pain from our past caused fears in us we did not understand.

Just for today I will not gamble says I am not willing to cause myself any more unhealthy pain today.
 
Healing Love and peace to everyone.
 
Dave L
 
AKA Dave of Beckenham
 
Posted : 16th December 2024 9:20 pm
(@q86r2ugj5p)
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Hi

My fears of aggressions were due to people transferring their pains fears and frustrations on to me when I was a child.

The addictions and obsessions just indicated how emotionally vulnerable I use to be.

The addictions and obsessions were a way of me running away in my fears.

Gratitude and appreciation is an expression of how much I value myself and how much I value others.
 
My healthy emotional intimacy indicates that my hurt inner child is in the healthy process of healing from the past.
 
Just for today I will not gamble says I am not willing to cause myself any more unhealthy pain today.
 
Healing Love and peace to everyone.
 
Dave L
 
AKA Dave of Beckenham
 
Posted : 16th December 2024 9:24 pm

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