After years and years of trying to help  my partner I can’t do it anymore. He’s gambled £10000 in the last 6 months which  we paid off leaving us with nothing and he’s done it again. Not only that he’s turned so nasty towards me threatening to smash my car up and I will regret it. He’s now homeless with no money. But why do I feel so guilty. He says he’s hates me i honestly think he blames me for his predicament.Â
Hi there. The word we in the sentence regarding repayment of the 10k struck me hard as after all your years of past efforts it came to you to contribute to this debt I am afraid enabled behaviour has become entrenched now
 This is only going to be a complete cold turkey no holds barred battle he must now surrender to the treatment plan with no back chat absolutely everything from all relevant organisations only then will it be possible to live your life and I mean YOUR life
Start today and keep posting here for positive uplifting help at any time
All the best
I know paying it off was the worse thing we could do we being me and his mum but we had people threatening to come to our house we have kids.Â
the messages im getting today are vile. So nasty. Why am I hated so much ? Is he just angry with himselfÂ
That’s how most compulsive gamblers end up.You haven’t done nothing wrong,so please don’t feel sorry for that person.More you feel sorry for gambler more he will feed of you and your kindness.
you’re an amazing person remember that there will be a person out there who put you on 1st place before gambling.xxxx
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