my story is a long one but can be found on previous threads. Since confessing all about my secret addiction and debts, I was made to feel so guilty that I literally swore to my family that I would never spend a penny on online gambling ever again. If I hadn't sworn on various family members lives, I truly believe that I would still be throwing my money down the drain as I have NO willpower whatsoever. Somehow the psychological deceit is keeping me gamble free. I never thought I would have the guts to explain that I'm £36k in debt due to gambling - but would recommend that anyone who seriously wants to stop confesses all to their loved ones. It's the best deterrent ever.
Good luck everyone xx
Hi there,
What a brilliant step you took, and courageous, too. It does take a lot of guts to start talking about your problem, to open up and to expose yourself to the response of others. While it is important that you stop gambling for yourself, your future, for what and who you want to be, allowing yourself to be under more scrutiny from others can also help closing down those secret "exit doors", when ever you feel urges to have a gamble.
Most people find that their families want to be there for them, want to support and essentially have their best interest at heart and it is always a great help to allow yourself to feel loved and cared for.
All the best for your journey!
Gabriele
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