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(@ibjkledvfy)
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Hi,

This is my first post before I go reading through other posts and pins.

I am drawn to crypto trading, particularly when it gets a lot of publicity in the news.  

As you can imagine I always lose money.

I have signed up to 5 year ban on Gamstop, although not interested in anything outside of crypto.

i have switched on the gambling ban on my bank account and have agreed to show this is still on my account each month to a trusted person.

I am saving up for a house and in the past have dipped into my savings but have not done that recently. Instead I have a trusted person look after the passwords for me.

i did end up with an overdraft recently though and didn’t save into my account because I fell back into the trap of crypto again.  Super embarrassed to have to explain this and pay off my overdraft with some savings.  I feel annoyed at myself but at the same time I have forgiven myself and want to just move on.

i don’t want to fall back into this again, so really need to understand what it is that triggers me into being drawn into crypto.  Is there any medication either which helps counter that feeling?

my biological father, was into gambling, so I also wonder if there is something genetic in that. 

I have a really stressful professional job, and just want to get on with work and not have any of this hanging over me.

 

 
Posted : 15th December 2024 12:27 pm
(@287hzyl0pq)
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Posted by: @ibjkledvfy

 

i don’t want to fall back into this again, so really need to understand what it is that triggers me into being drawn into crypto.  Is there any medication either which helps counter that feeling?

 

Greed and Ego usually 

Crypto is an industry people get involved in because they think its a secret get rich quick scheme nobody knows about , reality is you probably have less control in it than you would traditional gambling 

its a Ponzi scheme used by the rich to launder money and pump and dump idiots 

 

first step to recovery is admitting theres a problem 

Second step is admitting you are the problem 

 

 

 
Posted : 16th December 2024 2:35 am
(@ibjkledvfy)
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@287hzyl0pq Quite a bitter response there.  Greed and Ego? Yes surely all gambling can be linked to some form of greed and shortcuts to having more money.  But ego? That comment says more about you than me.

 
Posted : 16th December 2024 3:14 am
(@287hzyl0pq)
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Posted by: @ibjkledvfy

@287hzyl0pq Quite a bitter response there.  Greed and Ego? Yes surely all gambling can be linked to some form of greed and shortcuts to having more money.  But ego? That comment says more about you than me.

 

Every week people rock up to this forum wanting an answer to all their problems 

Wether you want to hear it or not the root cause of gambling is 9/10 an obsession with or a lack of money ,if you have money and a decent life why are you gambling ?

Because you want more.....

this defines greed & using gambling as a means to fast track it is usually the ego 

theres a very very popular narrative witin the crypto community of 

"We can beat the system" or " we have beaten the system " 

its an extremely egotistical community that won't listen to anything other than bull cases but thats another topic

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
Posted : 16th December 2024 7:56 am
(@ibjkledvfy)
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It’s simply an introduction from someone who will use the site to see what help is out there and what has worked for others.  Your aggressive tone and 2.35am replies might indicate you have some other problems of your own to take care of but thanks for stopping by.

 
Posted : 16th December 2024 8:02 am
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Hello

Thank you both for engaging in this discussion and being part of the forum space. I can hear you are both wanting to understand and be supportive of others’ situations and your posts demonstrate how different we all are in our experiences and thoughts.

Our forums are a safe space to share experiences and in our guidelines (  https://community.gamcare.org.uk/guidelines/  ), we ask that everyone is sensitive to how forum posts may be viewed and perceived by others. Please be mindful of this as this thread and the discussion around research and people’s different reasons or drivers towards gambling continues.

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Posted : 16th December 2024 10:47 am
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Their is only 3 medications that can really help it's called (1) willpower .(2) admitting defeat (3) putting every block in place through online banking gamban moses contacting gamcare for 1 to 1 counselling)by kicking the can down the road hoping someone else can solve all your problems  believe me it doesn't work been their done that numerous times at the end of the day you have to take responsibility for it no one else is going to do it for you but you will receive brill advice on how others took control of their own destiny peace always 

 

 
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