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I really don't know what to do, I have tried to quit gambling more than 100 times and always seem to fall back into it after a few days, weeks or sometimes months.

All together, over about a decade I would estimate that I have lost more than £50,000 and recently it has been worse than ever, in the last 12 months I have lost £25k and it is now getting completely out of control. I need to stop now for good, as my first child is on the way and I can't f**k things up for them. I would love to hear from someone who has quit and understand what they did.

Please help and advise.

 
Posted : 15th March 2017 2:52 am
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Hi Zacchary123

Welcome to the forum you will find a very supportive community here who will be able to offer advice and support so do keep reading and posting on the forum.

You may want to also contact one of the GamCare advisers on our Helpline 0808 8020133 or contact us on the Netline http://www.gamcare.org.uk/support-and-counselling/frontline-services/netline#.VBhpbfldXww

We can talk to you about strategies to help you to stop and we can also refer you to free one to one counselling in some areas of the country. This can help you to address your situation and your difficult feelings at the moment.

Best wishes

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Posted : 15th March 2017 1:54 pm
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Thanks for your reply. I am not sure how to admit to my wife the mistakes I have made. I am day 1 and just had an urge to bet again, so came on here and saw your comments. Thank you for coming back.

 
Posted : 15th March 2017 9:52 pm
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Hi Zacchary 123

Dont worry, you are not alone. I understand its difficult situation, if some one lost such a huge amount, but you must concentrate now onward at present and future. You need to be confident, and assure that past is past and, forget what had happened.

Just start a fresh start, and be positive,

I have almost 50000 pounds within three years, and thats was my whole life hard work earning. I was always chase my losses and it result me in a situation where, I dont have options.

I just say to myself ( enough is enough).

I would advise you to stop anymore, and concentrate on your self, and family.

 
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