How to start to deal with your partner's problem

@Lynne

Thanks for sharing what is happening on the forum, this sounds very difficult for you both.

Please be aware that we have lots of help and support for someone in your position, you can talk through support options with one of the team on the helpline on 0808 8020 133

Take Care

Jane

Hey Lynne, thanks for your post.

I am 23 years old , my partner (also 23) has been suffering with a gambling addiction for 3 years now. He relapsed over Christmas and accumulated more debt. This is the 4th relapse now and my patience is wearing thin.

I’m currently feeling horrendous after another argument about gambling, and like yourself feeling guilty as everything I say is the wrong thing. I am upset and hurt so I say hurtful things which I hate. I’m now feeling like a bad person for this. But not sure how much longer I can be calm and understanding.

thanks for your post, I’m always here for a chat. Hope things get better. 

Thanks for your post. I just realised how everything has been a lie to support his gambling. I have deteriorated and my household too. I called the hotline and they offered me a referral to receive support for myself. This encouraged them too but it’s their journey. Save yourself now before it’s too late. They will tell you anything you need to hear to support their habit. They know there’s help even if you put it on a plate.