Hi I’ve decided now I need help.
I gambled a few years ago got into debt and my wife found out and said she would leave me if I did it again.
well I have and I’m in debt again, she found out again by accident this time but I’m glad she did.
now I don’t know what’s going to happen , if she’s gonna leave me and I’ve ruined our marriage.
Hi @tbnuawfrep CheyChey
It is great that you have opened up and posted your story.
Be open and honest to you wife as lies and deceit is the hardest thing as an affected other to bear. I had to for 9 years and it almost destroyed my relationship with my son who gambled for 9 years.
It has to your decision to stop for you and nobody else. To have a life free of harm from gambling has to be stronger than the need to gamble.
My advice is that it is hard to stop yourself. Grab any help from Gamcare and any of its partners . Reach out to Gamcare helpline 24/7 to see what they can do.
You have done it before you can do it again.
Hope you get on ok and welcome to community, you are not alone and neither is your wife.
Various chatrooms as well for you both to join, so check out the times.
Patsy
Thanks for the reply, I’m hoping to find some softwear or something to block the sites so I can’t be tempted.
I have told her when I started again and how much I owe but I’ve hurt her and lied to her for months.
I will check the website to see what help is on offer. Any advise where to look would be great.
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