Hey I just don't know where to start in 6 years time I lost everything. Relationship with my family I barely talk to my son even he's 9 already I stopes taking care of him like 2 years ago and sending him money abroad, I lost 2 girlfriends that loved me and were taking care of me, my sister doesn't even want to meet me anymore my friends don't trust me anymore I'm in huge debt and since yesterday I'm homeless in London streets. I can't believe what did I achieved being 31 years old grown men. I feel like I wasted my life away and I don't know if there is a way back. I tried to quit so many times I lied to everyone and gamble again and again. I still have a job... there is a little hope... that maybe after I sleep one week or street something will gonna change. I just hate myself who I become what I had and what I lost
Hi Sadsad,
Welcome to GC. It's really saddening to read the above but I feel you have some hope left. Please don't lose it my friend because it's the catalyst for the change.
You admit you have a problem, now you need to keep taking small steps forward. Start with self exclusions. The less availability for you to gamble, the more peace you get back.
Gambling is sure way to misery as you see yourself and we lose more than finances...we lose our loved ones and ourselves in the process.
Please know that there is a way out. Just reach out for help and support! Things will gradually get better. There is always sun after the storm.
I am sorry to read you are on the streets but really hope you will climb back to the safety & roof over your head soon. Good that you're keeping job, even a little income will help you on the way (besides there are more facilities for self care). Can you see OH (occupational health) at work? Could they help? Have you got union there? Surely you can be supported while you go through this path!
There are also food banks to help you keep physical strenght going. Try and look for them in your area.
Please stay strong and avoid placing that first bet - we can't win because we can't stop! Gift yourself payrise and freedom by working hard and claiming your old self back. It can be done and only you can make a change in your life.
You're not alone. Can you also look around for GA meetings. These are peer to peer support and are all over the UK. Nobody will judge you as we all understand how horrible this addiction is and what it does to our minds/ lives.
Please look after yourself. If possible keep updating us on here, we are listening and we are willing to advice and support as much as we can.
Also, GC offers free counselling and I am sure you would benefit from it. It is really helpful! Contact them on the netline or telephone which I shall bring up on your thread..youre not alone....stay safe
Hi Sadsad,
well done for posting on the Forum and well done for taking action, even if you find yourself in an incredibly challenging situation.
As SB28 says, get in touch with our Helpline or Netline for some one-to-one support and advice.
Also, have a look att Shelter, maybe they will be able to advise you on your housing situation.
In the meantime please keep the focus and determination. As much as this situation feels incredibly challenging, you can turn it into something positive by really committing to your recovery.
Wish you all the best,
Eva
Forum Admin
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