Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go they merely determine where you start. - Nido Qubein - Businessman and Speaker
How very true Dave, thanks for sharing and inspiring.
Suzanne xxx
I am not my behaviour - Dan 2015
'I am not my behaviour - Dan 2015'
Hi Dan - one of the really interesting things about this site is how we view things differently. I have thought about your quote for a couple of days and would say when I was in the throngs of playing the FOBT's I was my behaviour. However, that wasn't to say I liked it. After 'that' inevitable loss I felt like a gambler and a loser and didn't want to be either but my behaviour meant that's what I was. Now I do not play them and for now do not gamble at all so consider I am my behaviour and feel at ease with it.
For me I would say 'I am my behaviour, and if I don't like what I am I need to change'.
Thank you for adding to the thread and offering a different perspectve to how our behaviour is inwardly viewed.
Dave
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