Tips on money control needed please

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@elzy92 

Hi I m like many people who were not able to abstain from gambling from day one.

I found that I required mor emeetings per week just to abstain from gambling.

Once I was able to abstain from gambling, only then could I start to heal my pains.

What I understand is that the pains I suffered caused many fears in me that I did not understand.

Me being angry indicated that my pains were not being healed.

Me being angry indicated that my fears were not being faced or reduced.

Me being angry indicated that I had far to many high expectations of people life and situations.

Me having such high expectations of people life and situations I was hurting my self and causing my self more pains.

Far to many times people will swap addictions which indicates they are still emotionally vulnerable.

Thank you.

Dave L

Dave of Beckenham

 
Posted : 5th December 2023 1:26 pm
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I have some great advice for you. Without sounding patronising or condescending please Stop and go to a meeting. 

I did what you did and found ways around it!! It's in my nature!!

The gamban etc act as a plaster if you will. You know when the edges lift you just want to rip it off. 

BUT if you really want to stop you will!!!

 

Good luck 😘😘

 

 
Posted : 15th December 2023 11:16 pm
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