Hi Ricky,
Thanks 4 ur support in chat also ur kind words 🙂
U r soooo determined and I am proud of u!
Have a gr8 nite x
ricky
your so close to the next challenge ending bud,
so a big well done on that mate. glad to hear the job is going well and you still sound as determined as when i first met you. i am using all the energy and determination i put in to gambling before now in to my debut marathon and even bought a gps watch the other day.
well hope you have a good weekend
gamble frees the way forward
carl
Morning Buddy,
The job is going well, married life is good right now, and you even get to go out on a Friday night with no gambling worries. 137 days and life has changed big time for you. When things are good and going well we ask ourselves how we managed to lose so much of our lives to gambling.
The addiction is ultra powerful, it's scary actually. For you I would say keep these good times very much in your mind, keep setting those targets, and enjoy life. This way when the challenges come you will have a real solid base from which to beat them.
Have a great Sunday!
Flagg
Hiya ricky. Hope all is well mate. I had a good time on the stag. Played the fruit machines but with my friends money - what i mean is he was playing them and i was only watching but then i started doing the holds and higher/lower on boards etc. But i didnt go halfs with him just played them. I think im still gamble free. If i was at the races and picked a horse for someone and they backed it, id still say i was gamble free.
Im sorry to hijack your diary but im just trying to get some opinion on what ive done and how others feel about it.
Hope you had a good weekend. Not long till the end of the 90 day thread. Sounds like Flaggs gonna do another one after it finishes - will you be joining it?
hi ricky
hope you are well mate. is the job still ok??
have started my marathon training now, with gambling i wouldnt of had time to cram it all in.
gamble frees the way forward
carl
Hi ricky glad ya jobs going ok and good to hear you'll be on the next challenge ofcourse got to finish this one first.
Appreciate your opinion and pretty much agree. I wanted people's honest opinion not just hear what i wanted to hear so thanks. I'm going with the fact I'm still gamble free mainly because this journey is about the long term and going back to day 1 would finish me off. Obviously if I go out tomorrow and lose £100 I'm back on day 1 and obviously would regret Saturday as that would've been the fuel for it but I think I can deal with Saturday and move in with my recovery. I don't go out with the lads a lot at all now so I'm not going to be in this position a lot so shouldn't be a problem.
Moving on now and going to complete this 90 day challenge and then will really go hard on the next challenge. Want to complete that one with no question marks hanging over it. Thanks again for your comments.
hey rick
havent heard from you in a while, hope all is well your end and you still going strong.
gamble frees the way forward
carl
145 days gamble free.
I have been a bit lazy recently with this site I am not getting complacent and I very rarely get any urges anymore but I will always have it all in the back of my mind so if I get any urges I will always remember what gambling did to me.
Work has been very busy and I am putting in a lot of hours but it is all good working towards my plan which is in place at the moment. October is a very busy month for me. And I have so much going on in the next few weeks it is hard to keep up. More things going on then when I was in the Army lol.
I hope everyone is having an amazing weekend I am having a second celebration for my wife's birthday today with the rest of the family should be fun :).
Will try to get back into the habit of posting regularly again.
Kind Regards
Ricky 🙂
Hi Ricky,
Well done on 145 days gamble free, u r doing brilliant. I am proud of u 🙂
Sounds like u r really busy in ur new job..... I hope u r enjoying it 🙂
Was the film ne good the other nite? I rely on u for the reviews lol 🙂
I hope ur wife enjoyed her bday, by not gambling u will both have a gr8 future with no stress. That is all down 2 ur hard work. Ur determination shines thru 🙂
Have a gr8 day x
hey ricky
good to hear from you, it really does sound as though your busy!! enjoy the celebrations for the wifes birthday cos im sure she is now her husband is 145 days gamble free and a hard working civvy LOL
have great weekend
gamble frees the way forward
carl
Hi Ricky
Just a pop in visit to say well done for keeping strong and being so positive.
I hope your new job is going well!
Take care
Forwards not back
Jewels
Ricky buddy
Hope all is well for you my friend
Keep doing what you are doing cos you are doing fantastic.
Gamble frees the way forward
Carl
Hi Ricky,
Ne new film reviews yet? lol
I hope ur job is going ok 🙂
Have a gr8 nite x
Hey Buddy,
Just a quick check in to say I hope all is well! Just 2 days left on the thread and you have done brilliantly! Isn't it 150 days tomo?
Awesome achievement,
Flagg
Hiya mate been a few days. Looking forward to reading a nice day 150 post tomorrow. Well done for going so strong. Hope the new jobs going well.
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