Day 50

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(@aoxbg6d3ji)
Posts: 73
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Get in!!!!!!

 

And a significant milestone today in that I finally told my partner today 🙂 

 
Posted : 25th October 2024 11:02 pm
(@j5a6meyr4z)
Posts: 488
 

Congratulations Roxy. 👏👏👏👏👌. So pleased for you.  Keep up your great work in remaining g.f and keeping hold of your money. 💪

Pink Lady 🩷🍎.

 
Posted : 25th October 2024 11:49 pm
(@p6z38njbqm)
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Great news Roxy. So good to see how you've progressed. I bet its a huge relief to have the secret out there now. This will help you so much in your progress. You are now accountable to someone other than you which does wonders to keep you focused.

Congrats 👍 

 
Posted : 26th October 2024 9:32 am
(@q86r2ugj5p)
Posts: 1932
 

Hi

Our honesty in a healthy way is part of emotional intimacy.

Our honesty is possible with reduced fears and healed pains.

Understanding our unhealthy emotional triggers is important in us healing in healthy ways.

Anger Agressions just indicators pains not healed, an unhealthy person uses Anger Agressions to transfer their pains fears or frustrations on to other people directly or indirectly.

People who are frustrated are having unreasonable expectations of people life and situations, it is not other people hurting us, by me having unreasonable expectations I am hurting my self.

There are many references to what we think are fears, Anxiety, stress frustrations and panicking for me when I react in unhealthy ways to my fears I am often very unsettled and do not feel productive in my life.

The highest of fears was a very unhealthy panicking, once I reached this high level 10 out of 10 panicking I was not able to think clearly and sort things out in a healthy way.

Panicking for me was very unhealthy and unless I reduced my fears I was going to say or do some very unhealthy things.

So in life if we are healthy people we interact with al people in healthy ways. 

Dave L

 
Posted : 26th October 2024 4:46 pm
(@aoxbg6d3ji)
Posts: 73
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Thank you guys so much 😊 . You are spot on fish, its such a relief to share it with him. He was hurt that I hadnt told him before ,but told me hes very proud of me and will do anything he needs to do to support me.

Day 51

Still going strong, but feeling even stronger with my man by my side with no secrets :). The urges are still there, but I grow more and more confident in myself and my strength of will with every passing day. 

 
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