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David
(@d122010)
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That is brilliant news. So happy for you. Glad your holiday was great and what a start to the new year. You've flipped your life around last year and you can really look forward to this year and your future. Congratulations.

 
Posted : 10th January 2013 11:37 pm
(@Anonymous)
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Congratulations Blondie......Boy have you come a long way !!!! Yes, I am the Crystal of 8 months ago. I lost the plot 3 months ago when I walked into a venue that I was self excluded and they welcomed me with opened arms. But this year will be my year. I am the only one responsible for myself. My girlfriends that I have lunch with each week know about my situation with my son and my gambling and they both are what life should be about - fun, shopping, coffee/cake, laughter and I value their friendship soooo much.

Just watch my space, I will be right behind you and I will be 6 months before I know it gamble free.

Thanks for everything. Crystal - 12 days bet free.

 
Posted : 11th January 2013 8:20 am
castle2
(@castle2)
Posts: 1423
 

Hi Blondie

What fantastic news and how happy it made me feel to read ur news , what a a life turning year last year u had making all the right choices enjoyed the good times fought through the bad times inspired so many others supported so many others

U deserve everything that life is now rewarding u with u av earned it and I couldn't be happier for u

Castle2

 
Posted : 11th January 2013 11:13 am
(@Anonymous)
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Thank you so much everyone for the posts.

Day hmmm im not sure but i know its 9 months on the 23rd january.

Wow wow wow, I never thought i would get to 9 days, Each day i get stronger and each day gambling becomes further and further removed from my life, long may that continue.

I am so proud of what i have done and I know if there is a way my dad can see me he would be beaming from ear to ear with pride.

Life is to short to waste on gambling

Life is to precious to torture myself with gambling and hit the self destruct button.

I am worth more than that and for once i actually beleive that....

Keep going everyone, one day at a time, Today do something amazing ... I DID.

Blondie xxx

 
Posted : 11th January 2013 6:25 pm
(@Anonymous)
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Well done. The happiness you are feeling is absolute testament to what can happen to you if you don't gamble. What a ray of sunshine you are. DB

 
Posted : 11th January 2013 6:31 pm
scottyboy
(@scottyboy)
Posts: 651
 

Thanks for your lovely post on my page! It means alot to me that so many people here support and care for others. Feeling really low right now but will be better soon.jst for today I wont bet for a better tomorrow. Keep up your good work. Thanks again scottyboy xx

 
Posted : 12th January 2013 12:06 am
(@Anonymous)
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Hi Blondie

Great to see you are still on the forum and well done you on going nearly 9 months I am really proud of you, just keep doing what you are doing.

Wilsy x

 
Posted : 12th January 2013 12:49 am
(@Anonymous)
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Thank you for your post my lovely, all I can say is right back atcha! 😀

 
Posted : 12th January 2013 1:51 pm
(@Anonymous)
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hi blondie

hope you had great holiday and a big well done on your journey and how far you have come

keep at it

 
Posted : 12th January 2013 4:22 pm
judy
 judy
(@judy)
Posts: 2163
 

Well Blondie, it sounds like a congratulations is in order! Sounds like Rach is on the job -- cyber Maid of Honor? Loved reading about the proposal. So romantical and all! I want to thank you for your drive by the other day. It meant alot. I consider you someone who has given alot of time, committment and integrity to this forum. I look forward to reading more about you wonderful journey. Thanks, and again, CONGRATULATIONS! -joanxxxx

 
Posted : 12th January 2013 4:46 pm
S.A
 S.A
(@s-687)
Posts: 4881
 

I Blondie and well done on your gambling free time... an excellent acheivement!

I also see that your getting married, just in case you'd forgotten I thought i'd remind you 😉 ... but seriously congratulations and I hope your life continues to go from strength to strength. You deserve it! Warm regards.. S.A 🙂

 
Posted : 12th January 2013 5:26 pm
(@Anonymous)
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Hello Oh Blonde one!

How you doing my "liccle bride to be".......Still made up with it hun!

You have really brought a great joy to the forum....Life can be turned around!

Will never forget the post on mine where you told the story of meeting....still get goosebumps....o*g...cupid just came on the radio...womble ...big fat juicy goosebumps!!!!

Huge Womble hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 
Posted : 12th January 2013 7:07 pm
(@Anonymous)
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Thanks everyone for the posts it's always appreciated. What a lovely weekend so far these are the things that we take for granted when we gamble. Day spent with mum, youngest and boyfriend or correction fiancé lol sounds weird that, cooking Lebanese food and eating the spoils, nice walk with the dogs, then home and some tv with the eldest tagging along and her new boyfriend who flew from Bournemouth tonight to see her, hmmm never been introduced to a boyfriend before . Off to a wedding Fair tomorrow that was the other halfs idea not mine, but looking forward to it.

No gambling to report, no time, no inclination, no urges and no intention on acting on them even if they come.

Just for today I choose to be as happy as I can be, today I was thankful for the people who are in my life, and I told everyone of them. Today I was thankful for another day in recovery.

Take care all.

Blondie xxx

 
Posted : 13th January 2013 1:16 am
duncan.mac
(@duncan-mac)
Posts: 4422
 

Blondie

No time, no inclination.

Enough said.

Keep enjoying the fruits of your fantastic labours

be proud, walk tall and be happy in the fact you learnt the right.

To live and love living.

Inspired.

Thanks for sharing.

Duncs stepping forward never back

 
Posted : 13th January 2013 1:24 am
(@Anonymous)
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Good Morning Blondie

Just a fly by to say a HUGE congratulations on the engagement , what a huge smile that put on my face 🙂

Footprints and LMM also want to pass on their congratulations to you too

Made up for you Blondie

Footprints, LMM and Lucy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 
Posted : 13th January 2013 12:08 pm
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