Ditto what Russ says Blocked.
Seano.
Hi Blocked.
I think you are a top bloke and i just wanted to say that i am thinking of you during what must be a nightmare time for you.
Curly.
Hi Blocked
You have lots of friends on here m8.We are all rooting for you.Take care m8 .Jeff.
Hai Blocked....echoing the others here... unreal... willing you on. take care
Hello Blocked,
sorry to hear about what's happening to you. I also found out my wife was having an affair when I was in the depths of my gambling misery some years ago, it was awful at the time and we eventually divorced, but it was the wake up call, shock, whatever I needed and as a result I gave up smoking and gambling (for 5 years)
Yes, I've relapsed and hence I'm on here, but sometimes good things can come out of the most awful situations though you don't see it at the time, that's for sure.
All the best
Simon
Nowthen Blocked,
Really sorry man, look after yourself and stay safe.
Hi mate,
Really hope you are ok,
Take Care
Blues
Hi Blocked,
I think skint Simon hits the nail on the head, these things happen because of our gambling, all the bad that's happens is because of the gambling.
You have no control over the past and how people have reacted to what you did, the only control you have left is to stop gambling, that's all you can do then everything else will get better.
Will it sort things between you and your wife? Who knows, but unless you quit it for good you won't have the tools and your poker hand of life will be worth Jack s**t!
Don't give gambling the satisfaction Blocked, you are too good for that and we are recruiting for our recovering gamblers cricket team.
Your wife having an affair is enough to send a non gambler over the ropes, but you have not be looking after yourself so I imagine it's been the same with your wife, another kick in the nuts from gambling as it turns us into t*****s.
Please though blocked, you won't see any light unless this time IT IS for good.
Here whenever mate.
Smokey.
Just been catching up with the diaries, so sorry to read your last few posts.
Like the many others, am thinking of you during this difficult time.
Hang in there mate
Blocked,
That's terrible news. Thinking of you.
Brian
Check-in with us blocked, just let us know you are okay my friend, we are all here for you.
Smokey
Blocked you've many friends on here concerned for you. ...chin up mate as smoky says were all here for you
Blocked,
Whatever you're going through, I'm thinking of you and know that you must be having such a hard time.
You might never post again but it won't stop your gamcare buddies worrying.
All the best Blocked.
Smokey
hey blocked
just to let you know im thinking of you mate and you know where we all are whenever u are ready.
i hope ur doing ok despite the circumstances.
stay strong
Still thinking of you mate.
Smokey :o)
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