Finally found it in me to admit I have a problem.
Someone I am close with is a gambling addict also. I thought I wasn't like that and I was just 'recreational' until I started getting bank charges for becoming overdrawn from gambling and realising that mostly all of my wage after bills was being gambled. My partner noticed when betting transactions were showing on our joint bills account. They could not be anymore understanding and have been supportive in the lapses I have had since. I am lucky enough that these transactions were found so early as I have not managed to rack up any substantial debt yet. I have decided that today was the last time I will gamble. I've self excluded myself from all casino sites now - is there anymore I can do?
Hi,
Well done on confronting and admitting your problem. I did the same thing last week and it feels like a burden is being removed from my life and I can finally concentrate on healthy activities as well as facing up to my debt and dealing with it. I have also closed my gambling accounts and self excluded myself. I think beyond that the biggest thing is making sure that whenever you feel compelled to gamble tell those closest to you (who know you have a problem) so that they can help you move past the hurdle. I think saying these things out loud to those that love and support you will give you the strength to not give in to temptation. I am also going to see a counsellor to deal with the route causes of my problem - maybe that would help you as well?
Anyway, I wish you all the best.
Hey Danielle I can relate. I only started gambling last year at the age of 29 before then it was something that never interested me. In the beginning i was in control, i could take it or leave it. I would pop into a casino on a night out spend £20-£30 have a bit of fun then leave usually with the casinos money in my pocket. But slowly but surely I became addicted to the highs and lows of roulette. Now I am having to face the fact that I too am now a cg and no longer in control and have racked up i think £4000 of gambling debts in the last 2-3 months. If im ever tempted I will remind myself the only sure way to win is not to play. Good luck and all the best.
Hi Daniel051006
Welcome to the forum, yes i agree its a step forward now that you have finally found it in you to admit you have a problem. It must have been difficult but you did it so well done.
Its also wonderful to hear that you were fortunate enough to have some understanding and support during your relapse. In addition your bank charges and transactions were spotted early enough to prevent you incurring any substantial debts.
In support of your recovery you might like to consider speaking to one of our advisers on the helpline 0808 8020 133 to find out more about our free counselling service and additional support with your relapse recovery. I encourage you to keep posting for support, information and encouragement.
Kind regards
Cade
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