Gambling problem - got bigger than I ever thought

Hi Fluffyslipper thank you for sharing your experiences sounds like it has been very difficult for you at times.

I understand the secrecy and stress that can be created when hiding gambling debt for various reasons. There is support available to help you make arrangements to clear those debts and you can seek advise and information from the Money Guidance Scheme which is accessible via the helpline on 0808 802 0133. 

You have made a positive decision to change and it may help to list the benefits of making those changes so as to remind you to keep pressing towards your goal.

Also there is https://www.gamcare.org.uk/self-help/managing-your-money/    link which offers a step by step approach to addressing money issues.

There is 121 treatment that you can also access via GamCare if you need to talk to a Practitioner on a regular basis again the helpline Advisor can support you to make a referral. Also speak with your G.P. if you are experiencing any stress or need some extra support.

Also we do offer support to family members affected by someone's problem gambling and they can receive independent support vis our helpline. 

We also run regular chatrooms that may provide you with support Chatrooms - GamCare you are welcome to attend on any day. 

We wish you all the on your recovery journey

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You are averaging north of 5K per month on gambling and I am wondering why on earth the operator hasn't picked this up 

Reading your post i highly doubt you can afford to spend 5 grand a month gambling and this should have shown In affordability checks but obviously has been allowed to spiral well out of control 

You probably have grounds to complain to gambling commission I would contact operator first and mention this they may bung you a bit back to try and keep you quiet 

I'm really sorry to hear about the difficult circumstances you've been facing. Dealing with debt and addiction can be incredibly challenging, but acknowledging the problem and taking steps to address it is a crucial first step.

It's important to understand that you're not alone in this situation, and there are resources available to help you overcome your gambling addiction and manage your debt. Here are some suggestions:

1. Seek professional help: Consider reaching out to a therapist or counselor who specializes in addiction. They can provide guidance, support, and strategies for overcoming your gambling addiction and managing the emotional toll it has taken on you.

2. Contact a support group: Support groups such as Gamblers Anonymous can provide a safe and non-judgmental environment where you can share your experiences, learn from others who have faced similar challenges, and receive support from people removed link  understand what you're going through.

3. Develop a budget and repayment plan: Take a close look at your financial situation and create a budget that prioritizes your essential expenses, such as food, housing, and utilities. Cut back on non-essential expenses and allocate as much as possible toward debt repayment. Consider seeking advice from a financial counselor who can help you develop a realistic repayment plan.

4. Inform a trusted person: While it may be difficult, it's important to consider confiding in someone you trust, such as a family member or close friend. They can provide emotional support and may be able to offer assistance or guidance during this challenging time.

5. Self-exclusion and blocking tools: Taking steps to self-exclude yourself from gambling establishments and using blocking tools can help you create barriers and reduce the temptation to gamble. Many gambling websites and establishments have self-exclusion programs in place that can restrict your access.

Remember, overcoming addiction and managing debt takes time and perseverance. It's important to be patient and kind to yourself throughout the process. Reach out to the available resources, stay committed to your recovery, and gradually work towards regaining control of your financial situation.