Argh, I have that sunken sick feeling yet again. I have got my wages today and I have blown the lot on gambling. Tomorrow I am not going to be able to afford anything and My partner is going to ask where have my wages gone because I just got them.Â
He has no clue about my gambling. Why am I such an idiot, why do I keep doing this. Even when I am losing money I say to myself that this is wrong just cut my losses and take what’s left, but I never do and then I lose the lot. It’s a vicious vicious cycle. I have debts coming off my ears. & owe people money it’s got so bad. I dunno where to start. I am working just to pay my debts which is sickening.Â
I am at my wits end with no money and gambling isn’t here to help me when I need it, I know gambling is no good for me. How can I stop!!
Hi Charosully
You will need to tell your partner about your addiction as soon as possible and I mean tell them about the real extent of the problem including all the debts. Or at least tell someone you trust. The addiction thrives in secrecy. Tell someone, but your partner will be the most important person so you will need to tell them at some point sooner rather than later. It’s an important step to recovery.Â
What worked for my husband is GA, gamstop 5 years, all self exclusions possible and my support (i manage our finances, i check his bank and credit report with his agreement).Â
Take it one day at a time. I wish you all the best.Â
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Yep, agreed. You need to put on GamStop for the full 5 years sign up gamban and put gambling blocks on your bank. I'd also contact gamcare as they can give you help support and advice each step of the way.
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