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(@4epqf2o951)
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Hello everyone, after several years of gambling I recently felt at the point where I had to tell someone I was struggling. I broke down and told my parents. My path into gambling began with sports betting (football and horses) where stakes were low, manageable. I never made big big money but I had some decent wins and that kept me keen to gamble further.

 

My huge mistake was through my own stupidity and clever bookie offers was getting involved in slots. Now I could lose £100s in minutes and it very quickly became a big issue as some big wins appeared, up went the stakes and addiction took hold.

 

Currently, I have mananged to ban my self from casino sites and casino sections of most major bookmakers.

 

My question to the forum is - Can you manage it? So could I continue having a few quid (and I mean a few quid, £2 etc) or a 5 e.w. on the big race on a Saturday without falling back into the trap on the casino side of things?

I very much see them as two separate entities. Very interested to hear peoples thoughts on this.

 

Stay strong everyone.

 

Thank you,

 

Jamie

 
Posted : 7th November 2024 2:27 pm
(@p6z38njbqm)
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I think you answered your own question at the start of your post. Small bets would quickly become larger bets and the cycle would repeat. Quitting means complete abstinence. You don’t quit alcohol but have a little amount here and there. It would always spiral. 

This is just my opinion, but I’m 7 months gamble free. Zero gambling. It’s the best thing I’ve ever done. I don’t need to gamble. I don’t think about gambling. I too had thoughts about just playing small bets. Maybe I could manage? I know I couldn’t. Now I’m gamble free though I realise that my brain was programmed to gamble and those thoughts about small bets were just its way of trying to keep hold of gambling. Something it loved. Something that brought it pleasure. Once you get past the early days, the brain finds other pleasures and you realise gambling will only bring harm, no matter the size.

My advice. Give it up. All of it. No small bets, no just this one time. You don’t need it. Life is better when you move on.

Stay strong 💪 

 
Posted : 7th November 2024 7:37 pm
(@dave101)
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Weirdfish is logical fish here imo from my experience as well. Break the cycle and rewire you're brain away from it.

Blocks and.barriers, build then high and use all resources on this site to fight the addiction.

 

All the best

Dave

 
Posted : 8th November 2024 12:17 am
(@l9g4zv8ab7)
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Hi 

I agree with the others. If you are a problem gambler steer clear of everything 

 
Posted : 9th November 2024 9:38 am
 KTID
(@kmw37lqy5i)
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Hi Jamie,

I've tried that approach before, limiting myself to betting small amounts and it didn't work, through time I was back put £100's into the machines.

And just wanted to say, you aren't stupid lad, those machines are designed to be addictive, try not to be too hard on yourself, which I appreciate is easier said than done.

Danny

 
Posted : 10th November 2024 7:18 am

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