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boxingdayfresh
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Thanks Mixer ! Ooh just next week ! That'll be great to see 🙂

 
Posted : 24th October 2017 10:59 am
changemylife
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You know that some people say things without really considering how it could be taken by others.

'Don't have to be a hero'. - It's not really what you wanted to hear coz it implies that you're doing stuff for personal gain or recognition, which just isn't the case! You are playing a major role in this - not coz you have to - but coz you're the best man for the job. And ultimately because it helps you personally to stay on the right course to happiness and freedom.

 
Posted : 24th October 2017 2:56 pm
(@mixer)
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Thank you, Changemylife, for your kind comments. You're right - this isn't an ego trip for me, it's about living a better life. And if other good people, like your good self, want to live a better life, and we can all help each other, all the better!

There's no personal gain, or recognition: this is all anonymous and I'm sure none of us would have it any other way! I think it's refreshing, and invigorates us all the more, being this way.

Let's all have a Christmas to remember this year. We don't have to gamble, you know. Look at it this way. We don't have to gamble; we know it's not fun losing and being, sadly, pathetic (hey, I've been there.)

Payday for many of us, soon. Let's keep strong. Otherwise, believe me, from an old-ish codger of 48, it really isnt worth it!

Let's keep GF everyone! One day at a time OR forever; because we are gambling free from the moment we stop. We just need, daily, to remember and respect that. And not to put on that killer, bad first bet.

Waking up with cash in our pockets or purses. Bliss. The smiles from those who care about us. Even better.

Mixer

Boxingdayfresh - keep going, you are heading for a Rollcall of Honour next week 🙂

 
Posted : 24th October 2017 5:29 pm
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Neveragain - delighted to support your Christmas Challenge; a great idea and I wish it, and everyone who joins it, every success 🙂

Let's all have a gambling free Christmas. Just for once, eh. We deserve it!!!

 
Posted : 24th October 2017 5:50 pm
boxingdayfresh
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Thanks Mixer. Keep up the good work ! Your advice is great and really helps knowing this challenge is being kept alive and real. Here's to an amazing gamble free Christmas. I'm certain we can do it.

 
Posted : 25th October 2017 8:23 am
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16 days GF come on people

 
Posted : 25th October 2017 1:43 pm
(@mixer)
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You're exactly right, Wallyweird.

We're at the time of the month where we sometimes (sadly) take "collateral" here on the Challenge; and we get a relapse or two. The reason? A combination of payday, and poor strategy. This is the time for us all to be strong. Payday is just another day, no more, no less. Let's not have another "man down" (or, indeed, "lady down"!)

Resist throwing your hard-earned money down the toilet. It's too hard earned !!!!!!

Boxingdayfresh - we can do it. We don't have to waste our money!

 
Posted : 26th October 2017 2:48 pm
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Checking in... I believe I have hit Day 30 today... (is it too early to celebrate?!)

 
Posted : 26th October 2017 5:20 pm
(@mixer)
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Adam808 - It is NEVER too early to celebrate - Congratulations my friend. This is the most difficult target to meet and you've got here - You are officially a STRIVER!!!

Mayfair Ave - Welcome to the Challenge. Great to have you aboard 🙂 !

 
Posted : 26th October 2017 5:51 pm
degenerate
(@degenerate)
Posts: 479
 

Well done Adam. Keep making positive steps to recovery.

 
Posted : 26th October 2017 8:39 pm
boxingdayfresh
(@boxingdayfresh)
Posts: 921
 

Well done Adam and congratulations on achieving 30 days and STRIVER status. I'm not far behind you on 25 days. This challenge is really helping me stay focussed.

 
Posted : 26th October 2017 10:11 pm
(@mixer)
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Weekend coming up - let's all keep strong and stick together on the Guru Challenge 🙂

Don't forget the Christmas Challenge too - highly recommended 🙂

 
Posted : 27th October 2017 7:30 pm
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Checking in at Day 28. Still GF and still attending GA. Looking forward to December. Is it too early to look forward to 2018.

 
Posted : 28th October 2017 12:53 am
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We must always look forward, and meantime enjoy life Geo. It's only one life, let's make the most of it. Fantastic you're on Day 28 Geo - a STRIVER in two days, and no looking back from there.

Remember, we don't have to gamble. No-one's forcing us too! Let's just leave it... it's a waste of time, money and our lives. Let's just leave it. We don't have to!

 
Posted : 28th October 2017 8:56 am
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Hi guys. Checking in at 18 (I think) days gamble free. Mixer, you are a hero, actually. The effort you put into this and your enthusiasm is awesome. Respect.

 
Posted : 28th October 2017 10:55 am
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