I am 20 days gamble free now and feel like each day it is getting easier. But with that each day the guilt eats me up more of loved ones I have hurt. The lies I have told and will I ever get trust back. I know it will take time but find it hard.
will they ever trust me again and can I be happy again. I don’t know but will keep plodding on taking each day as an achievement and will try win trust back
20 days gamble free is amazing, keep going , you are doing so well
Hi David,
Here's an idea, you can buy in or opt out no pressure. If your loved ones done the same as us to finances our gambling would you trust them ?. So what's the next best thing to trust ?, Accountability. To be able to show, hand over passwords to banking, emails credit reports. Explicit evidence that you haven't gambled, can explain every penny spent. Not only is it good for them, but how good it is to wake up without that feeling of o*g why did I do that, how am I going to hide this mess ?. Think about it.
Best Wishes
AL
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