Realised a trigger

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(@1y6nrqvgdi)
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Hi all,13 days free.

Tonight I realised a trigger. 4 days of work and aboutĀ  10 pm,a huge urge to gamble. I sat in my car, then IĀ  drove outsideĀ  the gym.sat there for half hour fought the urge to gamble and I went in and worked out.it did the trick.spare time and gamblingĀ  teying to trick you into giving in and that some how it will be a differentĀ  outcome.Ā 

But iv came to realiseĀ  win lose is all the same it robs my peaceĀ  and my abilityĀ  to live a normalĀ  life and I will not give in.

Hope I can alwaysĀ  be strong when I need too.

Ā 

 
Posted : 22nd March 2024 2:30 am
(@fun-has-stopped)
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Well done on beating the urge, it's not easy once it's in your head! Such a good feeling when you don't give in not like the awful feeling you get after you have gambled

 
Posted : 22nd March 2024 8:16 pm
lids19635
(@lids19635)
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Urges are important to understand and interesting, in my own case, when tired, depressed, stressed or bored, also certain times and days of the week. Try to realize them as you have, spot them as early as possible and avoid to minimize the risks. It really is worth giving an hour quietly working out the triggers and the lead up to your potential triggers.Ā 

 
Posted : 22nd March 2024 10:04 pm
(@1y6nrqvgdi)
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Posted by: @lids19635

Urges are important to understand and interesting, in my own case, when tired, depressed, stressed or bored, also certain times and days of the week. Try to realize them as you have, spot them as early as possible and avoid to minimize the risks. It really is worth giving an hour quietly working out the triggers and the lead up to your potential triggers.Ā 

Ā 

 
Posted : 23rd March 2024 1:21 am
(@1y6nrqvgdi)
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@fun-has-stopped thanks very much had string urge today but this passed, feeling proudĀ  hope your doing well and thanks for advice

 
Posted : 23rd March 2024 1:22 am
(@1y6nrqvgdi)
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@lids19635 thanksĀ  for the advice,I'm starting to recogniseĀ  days of work,free tike is a trigger,but I kept my self occupiedĀ  and worked out and I got throughĀ  the day.so I must be gettingĀ  stronger ,every day can't be perfectĀ  14 days now and life is gettingĀ  better. Hope your doingĀ  well also

 
Posted : 23rd March 2024 1:24 am
(@1y6nrqvgdi)
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thanks for the adviceĀ  hope your doing well.

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