Realised a trigger

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(@1y6nrqvgdi)
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Hi all,13 days free.

Tonight I realised a trigger. 4 days of work and about  10 pm,a huge urge to gamble. I sat in my car, then I  drove outside  the gym.sat there for half hour fought the urge to gamble and I went in and worked out.it did the trick.spare time and gambling  teying to trick you into giving in and that some how it will be a different  outcome. 

But iv came to realise  win lose is all the same it robs my peace  and my ability  to live a normal  life and I will not give in.

Hope I can always  be strong when I need too.

 

 
Posted : 22nd March 2024 1:30 am
(@fun-has-stopped)
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Well done on beating the urge, it's not easy once it's in your head! Such a good feeling when you don't give in not like the awful feeling you get after you have gambled

 
Posted : 22nd March 2024 7:16 pm
lids19635
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Urges are important to understand and interesting, in my own case, when tired, depressed, stressed or bored, also certain times and days of the week. Try to realize them as you have, spot them as early as possible and avoid to minimize the risks. It really is worth giving an hour quietly working out the triggers and the lead up to your potential triggers. 

 
Posted : 22nd March 2024 9:04 pm
(@1y6nrqvgdi)
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Posted by: @lids19635

Urges are important to understand and interesting, in my own case, when tired, depressed, stressed or bored, also certain times and days of the week. Try to realize them as you have, spot them as early as possible and avoid to minimize the risks. It really is worth giving an hour quietly working out the triggers and the lead up to your potential triggers. 

 

 
Posted : 23rd March 2024 12:21 am
(@1y6nrqvgdi)
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@fun-has-stopped thanks very much had string urge today but this passed, feeling proud  hope your doing well and thanks for advice

 
Posted : 23rd March 2024 12:22 am
(@1y6nrqvgdi)
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@lids19635 thanks  for the advice,I'm starting to recognise  days of work,free tike is a trigger,but I kept my self occupied  and worked out and I got through  the day.so I must be getting  stronger ,every day can't be perfect  14 days now and life is getting  better. Hope your doing  well also

 
Posted : 23rd March 2024 12:24 am
(@1y6nrqvgdi)
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@gadaveuk thanks for the advice  hope your doing well.

 
Posted : 23rd March 2024 12:25 am

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