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Day 28 small steps to being a winner no gambling today have great day everyone x

The bear x

 
Posted : 12th February 2014 8:39 am
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Well done bear,

Keep making the right choice. 28 days of freedom, the only way forward to the better and peaceful future!!

All the best

Sandra x

 
Posted : 12th February 2014 11:43 am
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Day 29 bad day yesterday the stresses of life caused me bad anxiety,a month ago I would have dealt with it at the bookies or so I thought or was it just sedating myself I don't know ?? Life is hard but not sure betting is or can help in any way it just makes things worse.

No gambling today

The bear x

 
Posted : 13th February 2014 12:04 pm
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Day 30 working through problems not easy for me I've realised that i struggle with everyday worrys brings my anxiety on badly 🙁 guess I need to work through this but have achieved a month gamble free pat on the back for the bear 🙂

Have good gamble free day everyone

The bear x

 
Posted : 14th February 2014 8:34 am
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Well done on the 30 days bear. I have been struggling recently too all we can do is try and work through it, try and find other ways of dealing with stress and anxiety which don't involve gambling or anything else harmful to us.

 
Posted : 15th February 2014 2:48 pm
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Day 31 no gambling today felt tired and anxious since Wednesday got to work through it it's bloody difficult but I will fight 🙂

The bear x

 
Posted : 15th February 2014 5:11 pm
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Well done the bear I ve not gambled in 49 days I used to gamble online roulette and in betting shops I lost thousands of pounds. thankfully im not gambling now thanks to gamblers anonymous ive not gambled in 49 days.

 
Posted : 15th February 2014 9:16 pm
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Hi stop well done to you great effort keep up the fight day 32 no thoughts of gambling to be honest just working through the negative thoughts its something gambling covered over for years and realised that even looking at horses now while not gambling is a kind of gambling on its own way so eliminated that as well, it's got to be done, anyway enough from me have great day everyone.

The bear x

 
Posted : 16th February 2014 11:56 am
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Day 33 no gambling more cbt therapy today need to talk about things living and learning all the time have a good day everyone.

The bear x

 
Posted : 17th February 2014 10:51 am
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Bear,

Thank you for your post. I know how horrible anxiety can be mate. I was on medication for three years for it. It sounds like you are getting along great though, keep working hard at it. I promise it is worth it.

For me, anxiety was to do more with family issues, drugs and fear than Gambling. But then I did use gambling as an escape to all the above. The best thing I did was put the tablets away and forced myself to deal with the anxiety, I think it helped make me a stronger person without the reliance on medication.

Keep positive and keep going Bear, you will get their mate. If you counted your gambling days vs gaming free days...you are winning!

Onwards and upwards,

Hanz

 
Posted : 18th February 2014 9:26 am
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Day 34 no gambling my therapist said yesterday do you want your son to know his dad is a gambler enough said have a good day everyone.

The bear x

 
Posted : 18th February 2014 10:25 am
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Bear,

Thank you for your post. I know how horrible anxiety can be mate. I was on medication for three years for it. It sounds like you are getting along great though, keep working hard at it. I promise it is worth it.

For me, anxiety was to do more with family issues, drugs and fear than Gambling. But then I did use gambling as an escape to all the above. The best thing I did was put the tablets away and forced myself to deal with the anxiety, I think it helped make me a stronger person without the reliance on medication.

Keep positive and keep going Bear, you will get their mate. If you counted your gambling days vs gaming free days...you are winning!

Onwards and upwards,

Hanz

 
Posted : 18th February 2014 7:33 pm
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Posted : 18th February 2014 7:36 pm
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Day 35 5 weeks not bad if I do say so myself no gambling today have good day everyone 🙂 thanks for your post hanz.

The bear x

 
Posted : 19th February 2014 7:41 am
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36 days since my last bet all I will say is its been hard mentally and will be hard for the future but my son here in 20 days he will not have a gambler loser dad who throws away his time and money not happening, my anxiety is a little better which is great was getting me down :-/ have a good day everyone 🙂

The bear x

 
Posted : 20th February 2014 10:40 am
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