I need some help

Best treatment that you can give to a gambler is to leave him 

If he really loves you he will change his habits very quickly if there's more important things out there for him then you are then he will carry on gambling and treat it like you never been there 

I was a gambler for last 23 years,illness?I certainly can tell you that this has nothing to do with illness,mental addiction etc.

If people want to stop for good they can do it just like that like switching the paper to another page.

Just like a did

The quicker you stop its better I have hit rock bottom atm reached the stage atm of stopping but the debt I incurred is a daily stress can't sleep eat or even work properly there is no one to turn to for financial help to clear at least some of my debts so I can have some peace and fight with the rest I have maxed out instutions etc with loans and they are being paid well ..but it's it's external lenders that I need to clear that is a daily stress to bare and sometimes I feel like I can't go on so please to anyone that hasn't reached this point plz stop get help and don't destroy ur life like me

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Hi Rose

Although he won't like it I think in this situation the best thing you can do is ask for proof that he isn't gambling, ask to look at the finances, his bank statements etc, 

If he doesn't share any if this information with you, if trust has been broken in the past around gambling it can be very very hard to get back, if you don't want to speak to him about it then write him a letter for him to read at a different time with all your worries and explaining why you feel like this, that way you can be honest without worry of a backlash. 

Hope it helps and you both manage to sort things out.