My other half has been on and off gambling for years now. He hides it all from me and until it’s gets to his breaking point which is when he confides in me. I have never judged or got angry but I’m not sure how long I can go on with him hiding it from me. I need to consider my future and whether I can commit to being finically together with buying etc. why can’t he just be honest? The constant lying and secrets is making me constantly anxious. I feel like I have to dig to find out the extent of the damage. I hate it, I hate snooping but that’s the only way I ever find anything out. Please help. Thank youÂ
Hi we hide the issue cause we are embarrased and are desperate for people noy to find out he needs help exactly like me ive admitted my problems to my partner and she has kicked me out only what i deserve im hoping she takes me back but i hid everything hes probaly scared to death he will loose his family like i was .
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