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Hi l am new here. I have been up for hours as l will have to tell my partner l have spent and lost ВЈ4000 because l have a gambling problem.She will hit the roof. l forsee a big fight and its my birthday soon. l want to tell her before it cause l feel so bad. l am trying to choose the right time to do it.It start as £1000 and the rest has been me trying to win it back so l can cover up that l have been gambling and she won't know. lts such a mess. My crazy login has thought l can get a bank loan and cover it up. l have done that before. But its too much money l know l have to come clean. This is my first step being on here. Admitting gambling is a problem. Just need to tell her and not gamble. Easy.
Know your situation mate I know where your coming from I'm in more or less the same situation I've got to come clean which will make things really bad supposed to be going away in a fortnight but ive messed it up with the gambling so no holiday which is just ridiculous situation to be in but that's me I'm just a loser
Kitbag You are not a loser. You have just got sucked into something that made you feel like a winner. I know I have read things on this and I tick all the boxes. I text "spoke" to someone on here and l had tears running down my face. I know it has to come out, but its timing for me. Having just come on here its early days for me. Really I was on a site yesterday. Got up this morning and self excluded from it. But thats what I always do and then find a new one. I play on my phone cause I used to do it on the pc and she'd walk in and I'd try to shut it down and she see it and go mental. She thinks I gave up years ago but I hadn't.My thing is slots. So addictive. You win and you think you are on a winning streak and before you know it you've played it all away and are shoving more money in trying to win it back. But this time I can't magic up £4000 I have taken out a loan before to cover me but I can't with that amount so maybe its a good thing. I am forced to face up to it. Not looking forward too it. I 've a date I need to do it by 16th Oct.
Good luck mate all the best, we are ill sick people and the worse thing is we carry on its no life and sick of it to be honest fed up of the lies the s**t the c**P all of it it's time to grow a pair and show the stupid things the way out really fed up of it all now
i don't know how this site works but already I feel better for admitting i have a big problem. It has made me decide that I can no longer brush aside my f****d up life. I am not a BAD person, just am just not a Happy person. I thought if I killed me then everything would be over , but I don't really want to die. I just want to be Happy and Winning makes me happy but losing makes me feel S***e. I am angry that the bombdardment l feel is every where but Its my weakness
I am so depressed but who is not.
Kitbag wrote:
Good luck mate all the best, we are ill sick people and the worse thing is we carry on its no life and sick of it to be honest fed up of the lies the s**t the c**P all of it it's time to grow a pair and show the stupid things the way out really fed up of it all now
good luck Kitbag . This burden is S***e, but if we all try to support each other these "bookies " "casino" C***s will go out of business
Kitbag wrote:
Good luck mate all the best, we are ill sick people and the worse thing is we carry on its no life and sick of it to be honest fed up of the lies the s**t the c**P all of it it's time to grow a pair and show the stupid things the way out really fed up of it all now
Be f*****g strong These sites, bookies ect They are f*****g parasites that feed on our desire to successed. We will beat them by NOT giving them our hard earned money. These C***s should be ashamed off themselves. They take advantage of us. I think I will lobby my MP to sort this out. Please forgive me. I am day 1 and am looking for someone to blame
It's true mate very true but we are the ones who have chose to do this s**t mate no one forced us...we just need to be strong grow a pair and say no no no no no no no no no
sometimes saying no no no no no no isn't enough
pick up your tool kit and make sure you stay away!
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