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Cj1974
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I’m in a bit of a desperate state. I had a frenzied gambling relapse and lost all my wages. I am already threatened with eviction because of rental arrears and I am just worried about getting through the night. I don’t know what to do or how I can get through this. I lost my mother recently which may have triggered it. I have already been threatened with eviction for non payment of rent and I have nothing left. I haven’t eaten all weekend and now I just feel how can I carry on. I’ll be homeless in a month because of this addiction . I’m so scared 

 
Posted : 27th March 2022 10:12 pm
(@walks15)
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Hi CJ, Im sorry too hear that your really struggling at the moment,  do you have anyone that can support you in this time? There are services out there that offer support and advice. In these moments you feel you can't go on ring gamcare, They honestly do help, sometimes having someone too talk too can be just what we need. Please take care. 

 
Posted : 27th March 2022 10:24 pm
Cj1974
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@walks15 

thanks . I just don’t know where to go from here. I feel empty ashamed and now facing homelessness. I don’t see how I can keep going 

 
Posted : 27th March 2022 10:29 pm
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Hi forum admin here,

I am really sorry to hear that you have been struggling. Please do reach out to us on our helpline via phone or live chat, and we can support you with this. We are open 24/7.

 
Posted : 27th March 2022 10:30 pm
Cj1974
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@forum-admin 

thsnk you I feel pretty desperate 

 
Posted : 27th March 2022 10:37 pm
Kamalaliad
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@cj1974 please help me.

how to get help.

I have got a lot of loans and debts. I don't know whether I should live or die. I don't even have money for food now. I do not go home because of fear, never let anyone know anything. please help??????

 

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Posted : 28th March 2022 12:33 am
(@gerard-g)
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I have read on other posts that some people have contacted StepChange. Is that an option for you?

 
Posted : 28th March 2022 1:51 am
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@cj1974 

Hello CJ, 

I really don't know what can be done. For the short time, I would pack the immediate things you can and get them to anyone who can store them for you. After that you need to hit up friends family anyone you can for a place to stay should you be evicted. If you do not have anyone like that I would suggest talking to a local church and asking if they have any means to help you. Beyond that the next check you need to run and make some sort of living arrangement I would suggest renting a room for the time. As to food you can ask some one at work perhaps to float you a small loan and eat on the cheap. The long term goal for all of us has to be to overcome this addiction. However realistically I understand you are stuck at this moment is survival mode. I wish you all the very best. You are not alone! We all hit these lows and it will pass I swear. 

 
Posted : 28th March 2022 2:25 am
Cj1974
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@gerard-g 

my main fear is eviction and homelessness now 

 
Posted : 28th March 2022 3:59 am
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@cj1974 

Please do reach out, we are here 24/7 should you need any support. 

We are able to offer support with your gambling but we can also provide you with information and signposting advice so you can access support for food, finances and housing. 

I have included a few links in this post below, but if you need anymore information please do not hesitate to get in touch. 

Homelessness

Shelter – www.shelter.org.uk – 08088004444

Debt

National Debtline - www.nationaldebtline.org - 08088084000

Stepchange – www.stepchange.org – 0800138111

Your GP is also a really good starting point to access local support for things like access to foodbanks etc.

Thanks

Ben

Forum Admin 

 
Posted : 28th March 2022 6:15 am
Cj1974
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@absentee 

thanks for the advice . I did speak to local council today and they may be able to talk to landlord and argue that I stay because I have severe mental health issues and epilepsy . Very helpful conversation and he could tell I’d reached crisis point 

 
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