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Phoebe

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@tvhxjwr09e. I am really sorry that you experienced this.

Firstly don't make any sudden decisions.

Secondly stop all access to him getting money.

Third... Call gamcare on the above number.. stepchange are also Great 👍 

Please don't be scared or worried.  There are people who can help 

@forum-admin Thankyou so much

@thebean thanks so much for the reply. I’m just so shocked it’s happened again. I promised myself I would leave him with my kids if he did it to me again but I just can’t leave him he needs me to help him I just don’t know what to do or say to help him

This is awful situation to be in, is he willing to get professional help, he simply cannot be trusted with money, the only way this will work is all blocks in place handing over finance, he needs to understand he is the problem