Need stop this habit now getting ridiculous

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(@ho6sj0yz3l)
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Hi I have been gambling for 7 years now and have lost over 400k . I took my first step today by admitting to myself I have a problem  with this horrible addiction, and to get the help I need. I know its going be the hardest thing I've ever done but I need to do this for my wife and kids. 

 
Posted : 14th July 2024 4:38 am
 az
(@asmbtj5rgl)
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Well done mate for taking that first step.its always the hardest.there is loads of help out there so u are not alone.far from it.might be a good idea to put as many blocks in place as possible and have u told ur wife yet? U will b surprised how understanding loved ones can be.at the end of the day this is an illness and doesn't make u a bad person.good luck pal and keep checking in on here

 
Posted : 14th July 2024 12:37 pm
cpparch
(@cpparch)
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Well done for posting on here and admitting you have a problem. It’s a huge achievement.

3 things you need to do - Put all the blocks in place, triple lock all the doors. Hand over finances to someone so you don’t have access to money, and talk to someone, your wife? For recovery to work, you’ve got to be completely transparent. The evil demons want you to carry on being secretive and to lie. 

I’m currently 11 days away from being one year GF.

Wishing you all the luck 🍀 

 
Posted : 14th July 2024 10:54 pm
(@ho6sj0yz3l)
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Thanks guys. Today I put all blocks I place and told my wife. She cried a bit but said she will help me get through this. Even when I was putting blocks on I was in 2 minds, half of me was saying don't do it. My first night without gambling feels very weird, feeling very anxious, but I know it will get better in time. 

 
Posted : 15th July 2024 3:54 am
(@p6z38njbqm)
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Congrats mate, first steps done. Things will get better from now on. There will be tough times, but get through them and you’ll be a different person. Keep your wife informed. Chat things through. You’ll be surprised how much having support will help you. Keeping you honest is the key now. If you feel yourself hiding little secrets, these will grow, so recognise this and come clean. 

All the best, you’ve taken the right course of action. 

Stay strong 💪 

 
Posted : 15th July 2024 8:27 am
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