Told my partner everthing today couldnt go on it was eating away at me. I said i needed his help he was really mad and said hes helped me enough an hes left me what a mess dont know what im gona do.
Hi im going through this atm the gambleing that is.my partner knows but not to the extent that it is.cant bring myself to come clean.will ur partner not even talk to u about this and try save the relationship?
Well done sez even though it don't seem good now, don't gamble, be strong and you will see you have got to be cruel to be kind sometimes, remember that your partner has left and why he has left if this is not enough to stop you gambling I don't know what is.
Good luck and be strong we are here for you anytime
Ste26
Sorry for the late reply my partner has decided to stick by me and support me it's going to be hard for him to trust me again but only time can tell just hope I can stop for good this is day 6 for me no gambling good luck
I told you sez honesty is the best policy, you need him in your recovery just remember he did leave you and how you felt when he did and that was because of gambling that should be enough for you not to go back.
Every morning when you wake up remember how you felt when he wasn't there keep it fresh in your mind everyday, we as gamblers need that one big shock I believe for the penny to finally drop, I've had mine and believe you have now had yours.
Well done for six days and keep in touch.
Be strong and think about what you've got not what you havnt.
Ste26
hey sez,
read my recov diary, i was in the same boat with my partner. its always best to come clean i have learned
stay strong x
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