Having joined 9 years ago and again at a all time low - I believe this is my best chance of getting through this low point of life again -
1st time 7.5k worth of Debt which by consolidating I managed to get through
2nd time 5 years ago - upon having a mental Break down- my wife stuck by me and consolidated over 65k worth of Debt- 15k loan 35k loan and 15 K on cars -
NOW - Debt 15k paid off 35K loan down to 25k but in the last 14 months ran up 12k on my cards (2K this month )
this is Day 1 for me - nowhere else to turn to - Wife will no doubt leave me this time if she finds out I've maxed Cards up - promised id never return to Gambling ways but it's all down to FOBT - crack C*****e of most persons lives - just feel by posting daily I May get the help to succeed!
ALN - appreciate yr views and Opionion on the above- it took me along time to get over the last blip and feel I can go it alone this time- if i come clean I might as well pack my bags and having only returned home 10 months ago - at home with my son around is where i need to be at the minute - I turned my life around & family were so proud of me last tome - I couldn't handle them seeing I've let them down again - tomoro is Day 2
This is going to sound tough, but it needs to be said. You need to stop being selfish and let your other half know, you are not helping anyone by keeping it a secret from her, and also thinking you can do this with will power alone.
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