813 days since my last bet but I have strong urges to bet

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It's been 813 days since my last bet but I have a strong urge to bet.

For the last few weeks I have really wanted to bet again. It started when I had a mental bet (it lost) and another mental bet (that lost too). Then I strongly fancied a bet yesterday (that won).

My wanting to gamble has been heightened by a chat I had with someone on a permanent vacation in the tropics. He told me he was making money from sports betting and gave me an indication of how...

I used his "system" & sure enough it worked for the most part yesterday.

Gambling is like a bad penny it just keeps coming back.

 
Posted : 20th November 2016 4:50 pm
changemylife
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Don't do it!!!

813 days​!!! Just remember that no system is infallible.

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Posted : 20th November 2016 5:09 pm
changemylife
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re-read your post from 08/07/15. Your new found happiness and relief from the turmoil of gambling

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Posted : 20th November 2016 5:16 pm
Loxxie
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Don't fall back into the chains of addiction. ...
It will give you nothing....only take everything ...
No system is fool proof .....you know that deep down ....may work a few times. ...then the s**t hits the fan !
Imagine how you'll feel when it goes t**s up again..
Your choice....

 
Posted : 20th November 2016 5:28 pm
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Don't do it. Remember the dark days.

 
Posted : 20th November 2016 10:16 pm
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I wish there was a 'like' button, I would use for all of the posts for those who responded to TulsiT. Especially Samson's, I thought I'd unsubscribed from all of the emails I used to get with horseracing tips and found one I hadn't unsubscribed from one evening, checked the results and guess what all 5 of those horses lost. I used to bet £50 a tip so realised I saved myself £250 by not betting. As you say it is a random outcome, no one can possibly know if a horse will perform. If it is having an off day, falls over, gets stuck behind other horses, the jockey makes a mistake etc.

 
Posted : 21st November 2016 2:39 pm
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Thanks to all who responded. I managed to get through yesterday and today gambling free. All the comments above are spot on.

I forget about the mental stress I had with gambling as well as the obvious (lack of money).

I really want to stay gambling free. I usually see it for the madness it is but recently I've been sucked in to some of the "talk". When I was a gambler I was full of it. I'd tell everyone of my wins but never mentioned my losses.

Thanks again. Here's to more level headed days.

 
Posted : 21st November 2016 9:10 pm
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Don't do it, the losses out do the winnings

 
Posted : 21st November 2016 9:21 pm
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Well done in not giving into the urges, you have come so far don't give in ever x I can only say how I've felt in th last 55 days and it's like I've been reborn, every thing is so much better. X

 
Posted : 21st November 2016 9:41 pm
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Don't do it, you know it's utterly pointless. I didnt have a bet for years then lost it this summer, lured back in by all the 'free' bet offers and having won a little bit I've recently experienced the farmiliar anger, frustration, anxiety, regret and all the wasted time and energy. I'm getting back out with a small loss of money but a huge amount of wasted time. When you win the feeling of happiness is short lived and you know it's inevitable you'll end up losing, so much so that I think when you're winning you don't even feel happy to have won, just relieved to have not lost.

813 days is great, keep going, there really isn't anything to gain by going back.

 
Posted : 27th November 2016 7:04 pm
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I watched YouTube videos of problem gamblers telling their story's. One story of a lawyer in America whom would gamble $100,000 and be up $180,000. Then one night he had a brown out, which is not remembering what happened. He lost 2.1 million dollars to the casino. He couldn't pay it back and lost his house, cottage, cars and his job as a lawyer, he almost went to jail for not paying his debt.

 
Posted : 6th December 2016 4:04 am

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