So for the second month in a row I lost all my wages including £700 worth of Bill money which I give to my parents as all my bills are in their name, both times I was just trying to get money to pay off my debts, now if I just spent those wages all on paying of my debts Id be happy but I now have so many outgoings and now to add to that I've been told I'm getting billed more, I just don't know what to do anymore, I'm giving up my car this month (will struggle withput it) but just have no choice, Im really not looking forward to turning this all around, I'm not even 20 and I have more debt than I can even calculate, feel so alone and in a dark pit, I love being alone but would love to just meet a stranger online (not as creepy as it sounds) and just get it all out, I guess that's kinda what I'm doing but there is so much more to my life than this, reasons why I gamble, my attitude etc, I don't even know, but thought just share my thoughts. Thanks.
Hi Lucky,
Don't know why you didn't get an answer sooner.. yes, there's pretty good company here. Not even 20, you can see that as a really good thing - - lots of people don't identify their gambling problem until 40 or 50 and they've already ruined a marriage, career, and family. You could for instance beat the addiction, clear out the debt in a few years, and have plenty of time left to choose and create a great life. If you're paid once a month, then you have 20 days or so to build up resistance before the next checque arrives?
lucky0 wrote:
So for the second month in a row I lost all my wages including £700 worth of Bill money which I give to my parents as all my bills are in their name, both times I was just trying to get money to pay off my debts, now if I just spent those wages all on paying of my debts Id be happy but I now have so many outgoings and now to add to that I've been told I'm getting billed more, I just don't know what to do anymore, I'm giving up my car this month (will struggle withput it) but just have no choice, Im really not looking forward to turning this all around, I'm not even 20 and I have more debt than I can even calculate, feel so alone and in a dark pit, I love being alone but would love to just meet a stranger online (not as creepy as it sounds) and just get it all out, I guess that's kinda what I'm doing but there is so much more to my life than this, reasons why I gamble, my attitude etc, I don't even know, but thought just share my thoughts. Thanks.
You have your full adult life ahead of you. You WILL turn this around if you are willing to put in ythe effort!
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