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 Jade
(@jadelouise96)
Posts: 65
Topic starter
 

Hi everyone 

so some people may have seen my last post I need someone else view on this situation so I haven’t gambled myself in the last 2 years in the last few months on and off I’ve asked my partner to gamble for me! I haven’t gave no money over it’s always been hers. So I thinking really I should set my days back to 1 as I’ve still asked her to do this. 
 
Thanks for reading 

Jade 

 
Posted : 31st December 2022 3:15 pm
(@faith-777)
Posts: 49
 

Nope, I think that you are right to reflect on what has happened, but I honestly think that gambling yourself would have been the next step. For me, you keep the 2 years and continue in recovery. Well done for spotting the slippery slope.

 
Posted : 31st December 2022 4:02 pm
 Jade
(@jadelouise96)
Posts: 65
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@faith-777 

Hi Faith thank you for the advice I will keep my days going thank you 

 
Posted : 31st December 2022 4:30 pm
Chris.UK
(@chris-uk)
Posts: 892
 

@jadelouise96 I’m not sure what answer you are looking for but surely the easiest way is to forget about restarting your days free, just don’t ask her anymore. If you keep asking her then you probably should admit that you aren’t doing yourself any favours and if the days free are important to you then you should start again, but use this as a cut off point.

Stop asking her and continue to be bet free. I feel you are allowing this to dominate you. Simple solution is to move forward.
Chris.

 
Posted : 31st December 2022 4:49 pm
 Jade
(@jadelouise96)
Posts: 65
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@chris-uk 

Hi Chris thank you for your honest words I’ve promised her I will not ask anymore she’s told me she’s banning herself from the certain casino shops I’ve been asking her to go in so then I can’t ask her at all

 
Posted : 31st December 2022 5:27 pm

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