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I'm over two months clean now and have no thoughts like I used to have.

But it saturday is going to be so hard for a lot of us recovering, the start of the football season. All the advertisements, offers, the feeling of being involved in what everyone else is. I am a football fan, it was the thing that got me into gambling. I've never lost fortunes on football betting, the most I lost in one go was £20. The thing for me was that football betting was the gateway drug for me, football betting for me was what cannabis is to hard drug addicts. If I lost money on football I would go on a spiral and try get my money back, football gambling for me was always the gateway.

So Saturday is gonna be a hard day for me with the football season returning. I will try my best to stay strong for my family, my girlfriend and my own personal well being. I hope everyone else will also stay safe in this horrible day, it's gonna be hard following the football without putting a bet on it. But I hope you all try and stay strong like me.

Good luck everyone!

 
Posted : 3rd August 2015 12:49 pm
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Hi

Totally agree with the return of the football season being a tough day. Looking at the results come in and guessing the odds I would be getting if I bet on a team to win or lose in play. It's going to take a while to watch football and not associate it with betting. Not sure if that would ever be possible???

Today is also day 28 gamble free. Congratulations to all those who have survived today and the urge to bet with all the hype and ads from bookies trying to lure us in.

Paul

 
Posted : 8th August 2015 5:52 pm
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Guard Up!

You've identified the threat before it arrives, which gives you time to put together your strategy for resistance. Whether that's change of scene, avoiding the company of sports bettors, developing a different inner narrative around sport, or pure blunt determination - - find it and use it.

 
Posted : 9th August 2015 12:34 pm
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I got through it. I am from the north east but support wigan athletic, so to avoid the pure I drove a 450 mile round trip to go watch my team and cost myself around £60 which is nothing compared to what I could have spent sitting at home watching the results come in.

Well done one to everyone who didn't take the life of the bookies on Saturday, I'm proud.

 
Posted : 9th August 2015 11:26 pm
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If the cost of a ticket and a drive will ensure that you are gamble-free, why not go every week? Save money and have fun all at once. "I have to go to the game. It's for my health!"

 
Posted : 11th August 2015 3:47 am
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I would love to be able to sit and watch football with people who only cared about what teams they supported, seems like everyone's football bets are more important than their football loyalties, and that's just the normal folks and their 'fun' bets. Me n my recovering gambler got through it, well done to all of you who did too.

 
Posted : 11th August 2015 9:00 am
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Saturday was hard for me too, and my boyfriend managed to slip up and told me all about his accumulator

keep going x

 
Posted : 12th August 2015 12:35 pm
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Tom- This is exactly my problem and probably many people on here, if you don't bet on the game then the bet you was going to place comes in, but if you do then low and behold it doesn't! The betting gods are cruel! I've learnt to say to myself that what ever happens if I bet on that game it will not come in and to an extent this is helping, however I have relapsed today and lost a further £700 to make it a total of £5000 down now. For me I'm telling myself that that's the end but the urge will always be there to have just 'one more bet'

 
Posted : 28th August 2015 1:02 am
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We are totally deluding ourselves if we imagine that if we don't gamble then our missed bet always wins. There are no "betting gods". Learn to enjoy the game without the agony of worrying over every corner, free kick or late goal. It feels good.

 
Posted : 28th August 2015 1:27 am
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Lads, learn to enjoy football again. It's a wonderful sport with opinions and debates!!

We always forget the games we would have put money on in between each game, that would have lost. Don't loath yourself for winning something you didn't bet on.

Detox! Get rid of the urges. Watch football and enjoy!!!

 
Posted : 28th August 2015 7:07 pm
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