Its been nearly 3 months since my horrible secret gambling addiction came out. My partner has just been so unsupportive, doesnt want to help me and keeps bringing up all the lies i fed him when i was gambling. Something i am so ashamed of and cannot take back. Has anyone else been in this situation? I genuinely am struggling so much to the point of a relapse. My mental health has taken such a toll on the mess I have created.
I have never felt so low in my whole entire life I don't know what to do 🙁
Hi sbrogz89,
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I’m sorry your partner is being unsupportive. I can’t offer any advice but you’re doing amazing not gambling for 3 months. I’m too ashamed to let my family know I was gambling again. So I feel that. Maybe try ask him to be kinder to you as gambling is an addiction and we’ve all lied to loved ones or I know I have.
well done for being so strong
Hi sbrogz89,
it’s really hard for us who have the problem and even harder for the loved ones around us. Be proud of your three months achievement. My partner struggled and still does especially when I’ve had a relapse. Be strong and continue your journey
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