We CAN and we WILL - Join the 100 day and 2017 Challenges!

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4 days gf

 
Posted : 25th January 2017 8:48 pm
(@Anonymous)
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Checking in day 41. Still gamble free. Whoop whoop

 
Posted : 25th January 2017 10:51 pm
Skyblueblue
(@skyblueblue)
Posts: 374
 

Hola!

Apologies for being a little quiet, still Gamble Free, no urges/very few thoughts.

Four months ago I was out of control and my world was crumbling..............today im off to Canaries for a weekend break.

Debts still there but being paid and reduced.

Work better, making good decisions all round..........Its amazing what determination, acceptance and a mere four months can do to turn a world around.

Every day from now on will be a battle as my flaws will not go away, however if i am aware of them and keep them at bay then I am going to continue to get stronger and feel even more totally flawsome 🙂

Have a successful weekend when it comes.

Adios for now

Sbb

 
Posted : 26th January 2017 2:35 am
(@markman)
Posts: 629
 

That's great to hear SBB. Have a great trip!

Markman signing in 16 days gf.

 
Posted : 26th January 2017 8:10 am
(@Anonymous)
Posts: 0
 

Nice one Sbb enjoy life

 
Posted : 26th January 2017 12:38 pm
triangle
(@triangle)
Posts: 3242
 

Well done everyone. keep up the honesty

 
Posted : 26th January 2017 1:28 pm
(@mixer)
Posts: 1828
Topic starter
 

*** LATEST ROLLCALL for the 100 DAY CHALLENGE! ***

31 magnificent hardy souls choosing life over misery, day by day. Join us if you seriously want to quit gambling forever... one day at a time. Join any time... just drop us a post!

  • For members of our group still Gambling Free, and with at least 41 days GF - *** DAY 41 COMPLETE! *** Start date: 14th Dec 2016, End Date: 24th March 2017. Making huge strides!
  • For our members who've had a wobble, and have had the courage and fortitude to tell us, you're doing great! We are all with you all the way! Your honesty and re-determination is noted and respected.
  • For our members with less than 41 days GF under their belts, see how you're getting on! You are doing great and the rest of us will wait for you at the finish line, cheering you on!

Let's see where we're at ...

Member Days GF/Challenge GF Start --> Finish Date

1 babapapa 49 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
2 Change 24 / 24 … 02/01/2017 --> 12/04/2017
3 Clarkey 5 / 5 … 21/01/2017 --> 10/05/2017
4 Dean0 144 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
5 dsh 42 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
6 fiddlesticks 53 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
7 Gm88 34 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
8 JayD 74 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
9 Jim24 42 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
10 JI 20 / 20 … 07/01/2017 --> 17/04/2017
11 Katiecoo 5 / 5 … 21/01/2016 --> 10/05/2017
12 KP 11 / 11 … 15/12/2017 --> 25/04/2017
13 LHN 26 / 26 … 29/12/2016 --> 09/04/2017
14 M (SC) 48 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
15 MarkMan 16 / 16 … 10/01/2017 --> 20/04/2017
16 Mixer 57 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
17 Moorey 26 / 27 … 30/12/2016 --> 10/04/2017
18 newB 14 / 14 … 13/01/2017 --> 23/04/2017
19 panders 14 / 14 … 13/01/2017 --> 23/04/2017
20 Paulgam 62 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
21 Rhoda 52 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
22 Sam 241 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
23 Samson 137 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
24 Silver 131 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
25 Skyblue 114 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
26 Sodawater 34 / 34 … 21/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
27 Spud 53 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
28 Start 26 / 26 … 29/12/2017 --> 10/04/2017
29 Triangle 1051 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
30 Wardal 60 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
31 woodley 28 / 30 … 27/12/2016 --> 06/04/2017

Good afternoon everyone and thank you, as always, for your updates and kind words. We welcome two new members to our challenge - Clarkey and Woodley (hmm.. sounds like a double act!). Welcome aboard... let's see just how determined you are 🙂

Katiekoo, thank you for your honesty after your little blip and great see you've picked yourself up, dusted yourself down, and gotten up stronger. Here's to an extra-determined "Round 2" !

Now, everyone, we have to be on our guard for the next week or so. Many of us are salaried and this means we may have a chunk of money spare. Let's be extra vigilant and keep it in the bank, let's not throw it away in the direction of the insidious, sneaky gaming operators. We need to be strong. Let's use the cash to buy something we need, for us or our loved ones. Or for treats. This cash has got to last us a month; and, if relevant to you, there's Valentine's Day in the middle of it, don't forget. Let's not exchange our hard-earned for fresh air - what a waste.

The enemy is attacking; the gaming operators know how to tempt us so our defences MUST be high. It's DEFCON 1 everyone - all hands on deck, no-one buckle OK 🙂

*** JOKE OF THE DAY ***

Why I am Divorced

Last week was my birthday and I didn't feel very well
waking up on that morning.

I went downstairs for breakfast
hoping my husband would be pleasant and say,
'Happy Birthday!',
and possibly have a small present for me.

As it turned out,
he barely said good morning,
let alone ' Happy Birthday.'

I thought...... well, that's marriage for you,
but the kids.... they will remember.

My kids came bounding downstairs to breakfast
and didn't say a word..

So when I left for the office,
I felt pretty low and somewhat despondent.

As I walked into my office,
my handsome Boss Rick, said,
'Good Morning, lady,
and by the way
Happy Birthday! '

It felt a little better
that at least someone had remembered.

I worked until one o'clock ,
when Rick knocked on my door
and said, 'You know,
it's such a beautiful day outside,
and it is your birthday,
what do you say we go out to lunch,
just you and me....'

I said, 'Thanks, Rick,
that's the greatest thing
I've heard all day. Let's go!'

We went to lunch.
But we didn't go where we normally would go.
He chose instead a quiet bistro
with a private table.
We had two martinis each
and I enjoyed the meal tremendously.

On the way back to the office,
Rick said, 'You know,
it's such a beautiful day...
we don't need to go straight back to the office,
do we?'

I responded, 'I guess not.
What do you have in mind?'
He said, 'Let's drop by my place,
it's just around the corner.'

After arriving at his house,
Rick turned to me and said,
If you don't mind,
I'm going to step into the bedroom
for just a moment.
I'll be right back.'
'Ok.' I nervously replied.

He went into the bedroom and,
after a couple of minutes,
he came out
carrying a huge birthday cake ....
followed by my husband
my kids, and dozens of my friends
and co-workers, all singing 'Happy Birthday'.

And I just sat there....

On the couch......

Naked.

WCAWW!

 
Posted : 26th January 2017 2:28 pm
(@adam123)
Posts: 2908
 

Excellent joke mixer lol

​

 
Posted : 26th January 2017 6:52 pm
(@Anonymous)
Posts: 0
 

Day 73 another one gf.

 
Posted : 26th January 2017 6:57 pm
(@mixer)
Posts: 1828
Topic starter
 

(dup post)

 
Posted : 26th January 2017 7:52 pm
(@mixer)
Posts: 1828
Topic starter
 

Thanks start again - and plenty of good jokes like that on the way. (Good chatting to you tonight too, Adam). And the good news is I've found a goldmine of genuinely funny jokes and stories just like that one 🙂

 
Posted : 26th January 2017 7:52 pm
wardal1979
(@wardal1979)
Posts: 100
 

Hi all day 60 GF for me. I treated my sister and I to the NTA's last night and a hotel stay in London. Had a brilliant night. So nice being able to do things like this now. I never could when gambling xx

 
Posted : 26th January 2017 8:30 pm
panders
(@panders)
Posts: 61
 

Hi everyone, just checking in to confirm its day 14 GF for me xx

 
Posted : 26th January 2017 10:45 pm
(@Anonymous)
Posts: 0
 

Day 4gf

 
Posted : 26th January 2017 10:58 pm
triangle
(@triangle)
Posts: 3242
 

Mixer wrote:

*** LATEST ROLLCALL for the 100 DAY CHALLENGE! ***

31 magnificent hardy souls choosing life over misery, day by day. Join us if you seriously want to quit gambling forever... one day at a time. Join any time... just drop us a post!

  • For members of our group still Gambling Free, and with at least 41 days GF - *** DAY 41 COMPLETE! *** Start date: 14th Dec 2016, End Date: 24th March 2017. Making huge strides!
  • For our members who've had a wobble, and have had the courage and fortitude to tell us, you're doing great! We are all with you all the way! Your honesty and re-determination is noted and respected.
  • For our members with less than 41 days GF under their belts, see how you're getting on! You are doing great and the rest of us will wait for you at the finish line, cheering you on!

Let's see where we're at ...

Member Days GF/Challenge GF Start --> Finish Date

1 babapapa 49 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
2 Change 24 / 24 … 02/01/2017 --> 12/04/2017
3 Clarkey 5 / 5 … 21/01/2017 --> 10/05/2017
4 Dean0 144 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
5 dsh 42 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
6 fiddlesticks 53 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
7 Gm88 34 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
8 JayD 74 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
9 Jim24 42 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
10 JI 20 / 20 … 07/01/2017 --> 17/04/2017
11 Katiecoo 5 / 5 … 21/01/2016 --> 10/05/2017
12 KP 11 / 11 … 15/12/2017 --> 25/04/2017
13 LHN 26 / 26 … 29/12/2016 --> 09/04/2017
14 M (SC) 48 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
15 MarkMan 16 / 16 … 10/01/2017 --> 20/04/2017
16 Mixer 57 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
17 Moorey 26 / 27 … 30/12/2016 --> 10/04/2017
18 newB 14 / 14 … 13/01/2017 --> 23/04/2017
19 panders 14 / 14 … 13/01/2017 --> 23/04/2017
20 Paulgam 62 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
21 Rhoda 52 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
22 Sam 241 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
23 Samson 137 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
24 Silver 131 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
25 Skyblue 114 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
26 Sodawater 34 / 34 … 21/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
27 Spud 53 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
28 Start 26 / 26 … 29/12/2017 --> 10/04/2017
29 Triangle 1051 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
30 Wardal 60 / 41 … 14/12/2016 --> 24/03/2017
31 woodley 28 / 30 … 27/12/2016 --> 06/04/2017

Good afternoon everyone and thank you, as always, for your updates and kind words. We welcome two new members to our challenge - Clarkey and Woodley (hmm.. sounds like a double act!). Welcome aboard... let's see just how determined you are 🙂

Katiekoo, thank you for your honesty after your little blip and great see you've picked yourself up, dusted yourself down, and gotten up stronger. Here's to an extra-determined "Round 2" !

Now, everyone, we have to be on our guard for the next week or so. Many of us are salaried and this means we may have a chunk of money spare. Let's be extra vigilant and keep it in the bank, let's not throw it away in the direction of the insidious, sneaky gaming operators. We need to be strong. Let's use the cash to buy something we need, for us or our loved ones. Or for treats. This cash has got to last us a month; and, if relevant to you, there's Valentine's Day in the middle of it, don't forget. Let's not exchange our hard-earned for fresh air - what a waste.

The enemy is attacking; the gaming operators know how to tempt us so our defences MUST be high. It's DEFCON 1 everyone - all hands on deck, no-one buckle OK 🙂

*** JOKE OF THE DAY ***

Why I am Divorced

Last week was my birthday and I didn't feel very well
waking up on that morning.

I went downstairs for breakfast
hoping my husband would be pleasant and say,
'Happy Birthday!',
and possibly have a small present for me.

As it turned out,
he barely said good morning,
let alone ' Happy Birthday.'

I thought...... well, that's marriage for you,
but the kids.... they will remember.

My kids came bounding downstairs to breakfast
and didn't say a word..

So when I left for the office,
I felt pretty low and somewhat despondent.

As I walked into my office,
my handsome Boss Rick, said,
'Good Morning, lady,
and by the way
Happy Birthday! '

It felt a little better
that at least someone had remembered.

I worked until one o'clock ,
when Rick knocked on my door
and said, 'You know,
it's such a beautiful day outside,
and it is your birthday,
what do you say we go out to lunch,
just you and me....'

I said, 'Thanks, Rick,
that's the greatest thing
I've heard all day. Let's go!'

We went to lunch.
But we didn't go where we normally would go.
He chose instead a quiet bistro
with a private table.
We had two martinis each
and I enjoyed the meal tremendously.

On the way back to the office,
Rick said, 'You know,
it's such a beautiful day...
we don't need to go straight back to the office,
do we?'

I responded, 'I guess not.
What do you have in mind?'
He said, 'Let's drop by my place,
it's just around the corner.'

After arriving at his house,
Rick turned to me and said,
If you don't mind,
I'm going to step into the bedroom
for just a moment.
I'll be right back.'
'Ok.' I nervously replied.

He went into the bedroom and,
after a couple of minutes,
he came out
carrying a huge birthday cake ....
followed by my husband
my kids, and dozens of my friends
and co-workers, all singing 'Happy Birthday'.

And I just sat there....

On the couch......

Naked.

WCAWW!

Don't know why but that poem made me feel really sad. Is it one of yours Mixer?

 
Posted : 27th January 2017 6:28 am
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