A NEW THREAD IN HONOUR OF BALJIT

i lost about £320 on wed 4th Aug 2010, in bookies got it back then gave it back i am overdrawn in the bank so have to open a another bank account,

feel so low down, fed up with it sometimes you what to kill yourself have to pick myself up

why why do we do it !

Plenty of us with diaries on here actually don't "do it" Baljit.....,we take the steps needed ,and put the blocks in place at the start of recovery.

Seano.

Thanks for your birthday wishes to me Baljit. They are much appreciated

I read on your diary today that you lost some more money yesterday.

The sums you are losing are huge Baljit, seeing as your pay is about £1100/month. You must stop, and stop now, and you can stop. It is hard to stop but it is possible, and it is very important that you do, for your sake and for your family’s sake.

Please try harder, read all the advice everyone is giving you, and act. Action is very important. Nothing will happen unless you close accounts, limit access to money, and find other interests. You can do it, but you must put in real effort to win the war.If you need someone to talk to, give me a call.

Best wishes

Himmat

Baljit -

Gambling is addictive. You are addicted to gambling. Therefore you cannot gamble AT ALL. Until you accept this, and cut your access to money, no-one can help you and you WILL lose your home.

Giving up gambling is hard - but is it as hard as being homeless? NO. Does your wife deserve to be made homeless, because you have constantly REFUSED to help yourself by blocking your access to money? I feel really sorry for her.

Sort it out Baljit

f x

Baljit, please do you read what people say to you??? You are not helping yourself and people are trying to help you, why should they continue you are not contributing, just gambling STOP STOP and act on what advice you are given PLEASE, it will soon be too late.

My last bet was Tue 10th August 2010, I did £30 on football, horses, dogs, lost the lot you never win what i have lost has gone but won't give any more.

MY FIRST DAY OF RECOVERY WILL BE WED 11th AUGUST 2010 NO MORE BETS AT ALL

Baljit

I must have been looking for your diary whilst you were posting.

Was going to say hope you have stayed on the straight and narrow, and stayed away from the bookies.

Know the answer to that now.

You know what you need to do IF you really want to stop. Heed the advice of all the people who have taken the time to post on your diary.

Like I say though, it has to be you that wants to stop. If you don't want to stop then no amount of advice will help you.

I wish you well

M

Baljit,

Make a decision PLEASE!!! you have 2 paths you can choose:

1) continue to gamble and lose everything

2)COMMIT SERIOUSLY to quitting gambling and put the hard work in to make it work

Please choose one, and stop this P****** about. Its only as difficult as you make it.

I wish you well.

f x

Still betting will stop soon ,have to stop gambling ! you never win in this game

Did bet today on horses lost £208.07 no more why don't i learn

NO MORE GAMBLING FROM TODAY ON HORSES, DOGS, FOOTBALL, ROULETTE.

FIRST DAY OF RECOVERY WILL BE TUE 7th SEPT 2010

YOU NEVER WIN IN THIS GAME I STILL HAVE A CHANCE TO STOP !

Lost £204 today have to stop why can't i stop did betting on horses and dogs was up at one time then gave it all back !

STOPPED FOR 1 DAY THEN BACK ON IT THATS BEEN MY SAD STORY FOR THE LAST YEAR ! KEEP GOING BACK TO IT WHY !

Hi Baljit, just been reading your posts...man you seriously need to start helping yourself...nobody here can perform miracles they can advise you but the rest is completly upto you. From what i have read in your posts it seems like you have easy access to money...theres a problem right there...make it harder to get access to that money and you will see things improve a little.

Help yourself and you'll get better, listen to those who have been through the same thing and try to use the advise and also learn from their experiences. You can do it, if you want to...the question is do you really want to? Not "Keep Going Back Why!" as you already know the answer to that question is because your a compulsive gambler like many of us here on this forum.

Baljit. you still struggling but you havnt self excluded have you?

You gotta try man , giving up wont happen you gotta make it happen.

Teresa

Bajit! How about some happy news like youve taken ur 1st steps, self exclde, block funds, on head when urge comes????? Pleeeeeeze

Hi Baljit,

The only person that can stop gambling is you. You are the only one that can make the right choices.

And you CAN!

With all of our support and you honesty on this forum, it can be done.

Now I await one piece of happy news as pauls said. And I don't want to hear of any wins through gambling - that is not classed as happy news as we all know what happens to any rare wins....

Please have a lovely gamble free weekend.

November (73 days to go!)